My toxic friendship?

[Anonymous]

Should I celebrate her birthday or cut off direct communication?

[Grovermint]

If you think the friendship is that toxic, end it. No sense in holding on to something that has ran it's course and hurts you.

[Asker]

This friendship has long been toxic and I kept waiting for her to change

[Changiis07]

Depends are you really good friend?

[Asker]

we've been friends for a long time and she has very toxic behavior, i am tired from it , she ruins my energy... tomorrow is her birthday but I don't know should i send message or not

[Asker]

I don't know what to do

[Changiis07]

if she ruins your energy then maybe it's best to not be friends

[balyai]

Cut her off. Be honest when asked

[Asker]

I've lost my whole life from not being able to say no I think it's time to do this, you're right

[balyai]

You got this

[Killsey]

Cut.

[Asker]

What should I say when she asks me why?

[Killsey]

That'd be the right thing to do.