My sister, with whom I had a falling out, recently contacted our dad, asking him if I would give her copies of the photos I have of her when she and her kids were younger. I told her she could go to hell, and she wasn't getting the photos. Now everyone thinks I am in the wrong here and that I should give her the photos. Now I'm wondering if I am in the wrong here or if I have the right to not hand the photos over.
Some background. This is the sister who pressured me for months to allow her to be in the delivery. I eventually gave in and allowed her to be, but I asked her to take photos of the delivery. She did not take one single photo for me of my baby's birth. Worse of all, she robbed me of cutting my baby's umbilical cord because she jumped in and cut the cord without even asking me if she could do this. I will never have any photos of my baby's birth, and I will never be able to cut my baby's cord. She still laughs to this day about what she has done.
This is also the same sister who would not give me any copies of the photos she has of our mum who passed away.
To me, in my mind, Im like, Why should I give her those photos when she robbed me of having photos of my baby birth because she wouldn't take any for me and why should I have to hand over the photos when she robbed me of cutting my baby's umbilical cord and she herself refused for years to not give me any copies of the photos she has of our mum who passed away that I don't have.
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This is a sad situation I’m sorry that happen to u! So 2 things u could not give it to her but have her bugging and playing Victim or give it to her and never speak to her again
She is already playing victim. She has been doing it since April when I lost my shit and told her I hated her for what she did and I banned her from ever being allowed anywhere near my baby ( her niece) my daughter is her only niece. Hate me but don't dare come to my home and dare take your hatred for me out on my daughter who is innocent in all of this. This is another reason for why I am refusing to hanf over the photos to her
No you are not wrong for refusing to give her the pictures. Is she that bad of a mother that she doesn't have any pictures of her and her kids?
You have every right to refuse.