Have you lost a friend all of a sudden?

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Like, you were friends at one point and everything was good in the beginning. Then, one day, they just stopped. And it leaves you wondering why or if you did something wrong to make them stop being friends with you. They just did it for no reason.

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Yes. Kelly & I were like brother & sister and she was on her way over to see if we could write and record music together but, even though she was only a 10:00 drive away the last time I talked to her, I never heard from her again until a few days later! Apparently, her boyfriend called her up right after we talked, said some crazy shit to her, scared her and instead of coming to see me, she ran back home to Conn.! About an 8 hour drive from here. Next time I heard from her, she said she went back home to think things through and get away from this crazy place (he put here through a LOT of strange shit!! So did others, including rape!!) A few days later, she wrote me to say she had to say goodbye! He talked to her again and convinced her to come back and marry him and that she should never have anything to do with me ever again! That hit me so hard I cried for MONTHS!! After DECADES of searching, I FINALLY found my soul mate and, a year later, she was being taken away from me!!
After 2 kids, she finally divorced his sick ass but he got the kids on the weekends and, when he did, he molested and abused them so, when she finally found out, she tossed his worthless ass in jail!!
Nearly 3 years after I lost her, I decided to write her again, I didn't care what the fuck he thought! She was thrilled to hear from me and said she's gonna keep talking to me no matter what he says! Getting her return e-mail that Christmas night was the best Christmas present I ever got!!

Pudsmucker · Accepted Answer

When you said you lost a friend I thought you meant and death. I have lost several people because of death. Yes I've had lots of friends because of the things that I might have said but they were true but 20 plus years later I made reconnection with them.

Now I have lost several friends because of being shot. Some where lost because of military action.

A few weeks ago I was sitting in a restaurant with my wife and her best friend and her husband. Her husband was looking at the menu. He all the sudden slumped over and started twitching and jerking. We at first thought he was goofing around then he starts sliding off his chair. I reached over and grabbed him by his wrist and his wife was able to hang on to him until help came. He did have a minor heart attack. He's doing okay now anticipated when you have friends that were in their senior years. This is it an opportunity to remember that we need to watch our words and our bitterness towards our fellow man. What we say may impact those around us our words that we may live to regret.

DancingQueen16 · Accepted Answer

Yes I have a little context I was in 3rd grade and I had just started going to a brand-new school because at my old school I was constantly being bullied and because of that it became very hard for me to make new friends but on my first day there my teacher told me to sit next to this girl and I found out we liked a lot of the same things and we became really close and we stayed that way until we started 6th grade but she just stopped talking to me with no explanation and it wasn't until we stopped talking that I realized she was actually kind of toxic because I told her about a toy idea I had once and she said it would never work

Changiis07 · Accepted Answer

YES! We went on 2 road trips and it was fun but I believe that it was her distancing herself like always. She is focusing on school a lot and doesn't make an effort at all to hang out plus the last road trip we took it felt like I was walking on eggshells long story but yes people are just meant to be in our lives for a season

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Yeah. My 1st best friend. We were inseparable for 10 years from 7 years old. Senior year in high school I ignored his calls a couple of times, got busy with school and personal stuff and before I knew it we just weren’t friends anymore. I tried patching things up a few years later but it wasn’t the same and didn’t last. I know it’s all my fault and it’s one of the two biggest regrets in my life.

LiLee77E · Answer

Yes. I had one who died the night he wanted to see me. That was hard. 2 months later my other mate took his own life. That was hard too. It is what it is. Acceptance/closure has to come from within.

Anonymous · Answer

there was this girl i was friends with at the bars here , i'd always see her at this country bar and bought her and her girlfriend's drinks all the time , then about 2 months ago she just disappeared and haven't seen or heard from her since

rigmarole · Answer

Just people that died... I've seen a lot of that.

Lokiion · Answer

Lost friends yes cared no did I do something wrong nah usually just don’t have the same interest anymore or something like that so we just stop talking

Mansearching · Answer

Yeah. It depends on the how and why you speakin of

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I've lost a few friends like that, yeah =(

eagle1951 · Answer

been there a couple times

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