Have you ever missed a friend, Then realised they were not your friend?

[virtualwasp]

I didn't speak to my friend for 18 months and i think she used my life as gossip and told the people who were causing the problems.

Am i stupid and naive for not seeing what she was like. Maybe i was desperate to have a friend again.

[gowildcats007]

My best friend stopped talking to me for like a month and I had no idea, come to find out she was saying awful things about me and sharing some of my secrets. Turns out she liked the same boy as me and wanted to run me down. She just made it worse because she shared his secrets, too. Just because we did something we're supposably not ready for doesn't mean our friends should tell. I prayed on it a lot. I would still forgive her I guess but I know she is just in it for herself.

[virtualwasp]

women are unimaginably horrid when they want a man and believe they are better than everyone else.

[gowildcats007]

High school girls is the worst, but she thinks she's not as pretty so it's liking him and feeling bad about herself. She was saying she's better than me but she would do the same things as me. It's just revenge and I'm supposed to turn the other cheek.

[virtualwasp]

Its tough, funny how people wrong you and you are supposed to turn the other cheek. Most of the time they are only sorry when they are caught out. Do whats best for you. I have blocked her. Dont need the extra drama.

[gowildcats007]

Yeah that's good. Ain't no blocking in a high school in a small town but later on for sure. I learned to get tough from it.

[AlinaJanowska18]

Yess (

Unfortunately I know this feeling very well ❤️‍🩹

[jahaims]

No, I don't make friends with people like that because I'm not a moron.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Never, I cut someone off right away if I don't see the friendship being genuine.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Story of my life

[HoldingtheSword]

No, I have countless friends so no.

[virtualwasp]

Have any of them used you?

[HoldingtheSword]

No, I am not the one used, I am the user.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it happened a few times.