I’m tired of being a hater of everyone (in my head) all the time. I’m doing this thing where I try to not judge people and let them be themselves. You know? I just need help. Please help me. Thank you.
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I’m tired of being a hater of everyone (in my head) all the time. I’m doing this thing where I try to not judge people and let them be themselves. You know? I just need help. Please help me. Thank you.
how’s your day or night doing?
Don't be too hard on yourself, the fact remains, we as humans we always judge others. The way I try not to judge others, is if critise someone because they are fat, skinny, a failure, then I realise I am insecure about myself in some form or fashion.
If I were to call you a fat, then that's a reflection of my own body image, I am insecure of my own body image.
If I were to call you stupid idiot, that's I am insecure of my own intelligence, I don't think much of own intellect.
We are reflections of each other. When you look at another girl in some negative fashion, you are just seeing something in her, that you don't like about yourself.
If you don't want to judge others, work on your insecurites first, to become secure in yourself, it will take a lifetime of work. Self discovery on going journey, and a way of life.
Quotes, don't try and change the world, first try and change yourself, and the world will follow. cause you will be a source of inspiration, and someone who people look up to.
Another important aspect is to challenge your assumptions. When you find yourself passing judgment, pause and ask yourself if you truly know the whole story. Often, our judgments are based on incomplete information or preconceived notions. Giving people the benefit of the doubt can be a transformative practice.
I don't have great advice, but I do know it won't happen unless you want to change. More people should follow your example and improve for the better, myself included.
Try to see life through their eyes. It doesn't always work, though.
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