It was a meetup bad movie club night and my besties and I and many others are going. He just went silent after he tried to persuade me to join an Asperger’s meetup event and said his sister isn’t going and I said no, invite your guy mates. I’ve tried reaching out since, but he won’t respond. Did I do something wrong?
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Did you indicate that you already had plans for this bad movie night?
I don’t think they’re on the same time.. I just said I can’t attend this one.. however you can join me for this one if you like..
I wouldn't assume anything at this point. I wouldn't worry about it.
Ok, thanks 😊😊
I don't know, I would have to watch his body language and know this situation more.
But damn seems like you are being chased by guys left and right!
They just can’t find anyone else.
nope he did by assuming you would go with him
What’s he upset about?
because you would not go with him
Why though? He can go with his friends, Ben and Steven and have probably a better time. We’re not even close friends. We’re new ones.
What’s so important about whether or not I’m there?
sounds like he wants to control what you do and who you do it with
How so? Sorry, I’m a bit dumb at reading social cues
well first he assumed that you would go with him without talking to you, and when you told him u was going to the movie he got mad
But why? Was he trying to hit on me and I didn’t notice?
that would be my guess hun
Ohhh. Well I’m not interested in him romantically. He’s a lovely guy but I’m not feeling it.
all these men chasing
Oh, they’re just lonely and bored.
I’m no better or worse than anyone else. I’m pretty sure if there were more aspie women, they wouldn’t notice
lol that's a good way to look at it
It’s pretty true. They only got interested when they couldn’t find anyone else, if they even really are.
I’ve met 3 good men who aren’t like that though
you could be wrong on that one, I'll be back in a bit I have to jump in the shower
Ok😊👍