Is there a solution?

[Anonymous]

I don't like my life as a mom I just had a baby. Everything is about the baby I have no time for myself to be lazy. I feel I made a mistake being a mom

[kylee2437]

Do you have people around you that can give you some help? You are about to get super judgey people answering this question but I think what you are experiencing is post partum depression. Don’t be afraid to ask for help from people around you, it’s probably one of the most important things you can do for yourself. Mothers need breaks and babies are 100% lot to handle alone

[Apple1996]

The baby is still new. Takes time to get use to change

[Apple1996]

The solution is to have patience and wait it out till things get better

[Asker]

Right this is all too new I'm not used to it

[jetbass]

Being a new mom can be overwhelming, and it's essential to have some "me" time, too. My friends who are new parents use Joiner (app). You can connect with your friends and family for impromptu hangouts by opening up your home to specific friends and family. It's a great way to find those moments of relaxation and support when you need them most.

[Anonymous]

I know how you feel. I'm 7 months in and at times I hate being a mom. I'm a single mom with no help or support and it's challenging especially when baby just cries and cries.

Try to remember when baby gets older it will become easier. Make sure you have some good support in place. Make sure the baby's dad is stepping up and helping so you can rest and eat and shower.

If you have Facebook search for mom groups.

[exitseven]

Okay, you gave just signed up for one of the hardest jobs in the world. In some ways it will get easier but in some ways it will be harder. You don't say if you are married. You need some kind of support, especially in the beginning

[TheSpaceGnome]

Give the kid up for adoption, even if you took reponsibility, no child is going to want to be raised by a mother who doesn't love them.
Avoid sex in the future until you get surgically sterilized so no other children have to put up with your nonsense.

[Asker]

I do love my kid I'm just not used to motherhood

[Asker]

I suggested adoption but the dad's not for it

[TheSpaceGnome]

No you don't, if you loved your kid you would never give them up for any reason, and you would enjoy caring for them and being a mom.

[Asker]

Enjoy caring? Do you have kids? This is hard work

[TheSpaceGnome]

No shit its hard work lol, thats why you need to enjoy it to bother doing it.

Do I have kids? No, I'm childless, but then I don't want kids, and I'm not going to accidentally have any, nor will I change my mind, have them, and then change my mind again after, because that would be irresponsible.

I am a pet person though, and I definitely enjoy caring for those, hard work or not.

[Akam93]

Well then put it up for adoption or if it hasn't been 30 days. Safe haven baby box.

[Akam93]

Don't you have a father for the baby also he could help.

[Asker]

Yes he does but he works so I have the baby all day

[Akam93]

Then get rid of it.

[NotInterestedSorry]

Why are you calling a baby it? That's just rude. A baby is not an it.

[jahaims]

You shouldn't have reproduced. That child is doomed.

[Asker]

Please don't say that I think I'm experiencing post partum depression. I feep great today and want to be a great mother

[jahaims]

I am sorry for making such a strong statement without enough context. I have great sympathy for anyone going through post partum depression.

[LiamJHayden]

Give the child the chance for a good life. Newborns tend to go fasted.

[Asker]

Fasted?

[BigDog1989]

now you're getting it. but now it's too late

FUCK KIDS