Should I tell my grandparents (my legal guardians) that I had my first kiss?

[Anonymous]

I just got back from a school dance, and before I left, my friend group made a bet that me and the guy I have a crush on would kiss by the end of the night. I decided to kiss him, with his consent. After telling my dad on the phone, he is giving me 2 weeks to tell my grandparents that I had my first kiss. What should I even do about this situation? My grandparents know this friend of mine, and I don't think they'll let us hang out anymore after they figure out that I kissed him.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's a tough spot. On one hand, your grandparents probably want you to be honest with them. But telling them about the kiss could also cause a bunch of drama, you know?

If it was me, I don't think I'd say anything yet. It was just a little peck, no big deal. No need to get them all worked up over nothing.

But obviously you don't want them finding out some other way and thinking you were keeping secrets. So maybe give your friend a heads up not to mention the kiss around your grandparents for now.

In a few weeks things will have blown over. Then if they directly ask if you've kissed anyone, you can be honest. But they don't need all the details! Just say yeah, at the dance, it was nothing serious.

Your dad just wants you to be upfront eventually. But your grandparents are old school, no use stressing them out. Play it cool for now. You're not hiding anything major in my opinion.

The most important thing is you and your friend both wanted it. Forget the drama and enjoy your first kiss! Don't let your grandparents start butting into who you hang with either. You've got this man.

[Avicenna]

If you think they won't like it, don't tell them.

[Sour-rose]

Bruh, why don't you tell them you slapped a black person for the first time while you're at it?

Like, this will be a thing you or your dog won't give a damn about in 7 years. What will matter is what you do about this situation afterwards. Go with what you've done... or stare at it.

[4ngelic]

i think your not being fr, but if you are why do you need to tell them that you kissed a boy or even tell them that. just lie to your dad about telling your grandparents and hope he doesn't ask them about it

[Anonymous]

You don't need to say anything.

[hbkfan]

Why not lol