Should I tell my girlfriend that she was my first kiss?

[Anonymous]

Weve been together for 4 monthes. Both 16. I'm a junior she's a senoir. She's been kissed by two other guys. I've had gfs before but never kissed them. Our relationships a little rocky now..

Anyway, if I tell her will she think I'm a loser or will she be like aww that's really cute and feel special?

Eh she's sorta into gushy stuff like she wrote me a really sweet letter for Valentine's day..

So yes or no?

[fg919]

I'm gonna be the contrarian and say no. She could see it as cute, but girls in general like guys that don't spill their feelings and emotions everywhere they go. And sweet/mushy stuff is good when it's spontaneous, not when you're doing it intentionally for the sake of being mushy.

If she asks, then you can tell her, but don't bring it up out of the blue.

[me_just_me]

I agree with Supercurious and kayyykay, she would most likely find it really cute =) . Just be careful how you word it lol.

[Asker]

lol how should I word it?

[me_just_me]

Well that depends on the girl and why she was your first kiss. Lol

[DishLady]

If she's kissed a guy before, she probably figured it out. No need to make a big deal out of it.

If you think she didn't like it, try starting again slow and taking your sue from her in terms of what she likes. As a very old gym teacher once told me, "It takes two to Tango." Same rule tends to apply to anything involving shared space. ;-)

[SuperCurious]

She will most likely think its cute, I personally prefer a guy that hasn't gotten around lol

[me_just_me]

Even though your super curious ? ;P JK. No, seriously though, I think that most girls are like that.

[SuperCurious]

True haha, so its a good thing :)

[me_just_me]

Lol the super curious part or the part about not liking a guy that's got around?

[SuperCurious]

the part where girls not likeing guys that get around haha

[dongesec]

She would most likely think it's cute.. But you said your relationship is a little rocky right now--I hope that won't be the main reason you want to tell her...

[sloaneified]

There's no point telling her if she hasn't asked. But if you feel it'd help your relationship in some way, then go ahead.

[Asker]

shes asked before and I lied and told her id kissed someone else before because I didn't wanna tell her...

[sloaneified]

Oh, well then if you feel guilty for lying, then tell her. If you two are meant to be, she won't care.

[GingerRage]

I never told my first Girlfriend and we dated for a few days shy of 2 years and I don't regret it.

[Asker]

& why is dat?

[GingerRage]

Dat? I don't understand.

[Anonymous]

wen she asks or wen she's curious... but if she doesn't, don't bother telling her.

[kayyykay]

yea that's really cute you should tell her!