Why does my Babydaddy do this?

[Lexlexi]

So I just had my son he is 3 months old and I’ve noticed something about his dad when he’s around our son, when I’m holding our son, everytime his dad gives me this creepy look before he goes to kiss or touch our son and he’s mentions that (Oh awe you love him?) And I said of course I do And he asked me am I going to tell our son I love him one day and I looked confused and said I tell him I love him already i been did even before I gave birth to him. And when I say that I will protect our son from anyone including family members he asked me does that mean himself to and I said yes. Please help me figure this out and are my instincts trying to tell me something?

[Anonymous]

How does he normally bond, play and interact with the baby when he is alone with the baby? Do you sense he is getting jealous of the love you have for your baby? Has he ever said such things before the baby was born?

Next time Hit record on your phone and record what he has said and confront him when he lies and denies saying those things.

[Lexlexi]

He interacts with our son like he’s a doll and not a actual baby and makes our son irritated and cry on purpose and before our baby was born he said he didn’t feel like he loved him and it supposed to be the mom that does

[Opinion Owner]

Oh girl this is definitely a red flag. I would not be trusting him around the baby if he is treating him like a doll and purposely making baby cry. I would take the baby and leave

[Lexlexi]

Exactly you’re right thank you

[Opinion Owner]

If you have family or friends who are loving and supportive. I would talk to then and ask if and baby can stay with them for a bit.

[RoseySarah]

Huge secret men don't bond with babies for a while! He does not love your son right now!

You went through this amazing bonding growing and having your son.

He did not! That will either grow quickly or never do!

Which happens way to often!

[Lexlexi]

He does keep saying he can’t wait til he is older but he also said he can’t wait for him to be here and he barely interacts with him just in a weird manner

[RoseySarah]

Hoping he gets better soon or might just be a single mom the boyfriend never around but for friends with benefits

[Avicenna]

Well, we don't know him, but you do, so only you know if you can read something into those statements or not.

[Anonymous]

Some red flags right there. I don't like his chances of being a good father.

[In_Trance]

Why don't you ask him for clarification

[Lexlexi]

He pretends he didn’t do what he did and said