Am I over reacting because my sister used my sponge loofa?

[Alwayreckles93]

So my sister is staying over at my place because strange things happen at her home I will not go on detail. I am a very good christian. So as a good christian that I am I open my home to my sister but she can't respect other people stuff apperently. When i went in I noticed my loofa was soaking with soap. Now that is just disgusting. People dont just grab personal stuff from someone else's belongings. I comforted my sister about my loofa she denied it until I told her it all in soap. She could have just ask me for a new loofa instead. Then she went off rubbing in my face since I became a pentecostal I have become judgmental. The point is spogebloofas are something personal its nasty to used someone else loofa and no I am not ocd.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I think it's nasty, but it's also like $4, so I can't say I'm going to greatly care, and as a good host you should have provided her one upon her arrival with the slippers, robe and other accoutrement that a good host gives a good guest in their room when they come.

[Alwayreckles93]

I did give her one. I left it on her room and still ignore me ornshe chooe to makenmenupset on porpuse. Plush she's an adult not a kid she plan on taking a shiwer why not ask. If I am visiting i know better to pack and take my own stuff.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Ok... It's still $4. I don't care enough about $4 to make a stink out of it. When you visit her secretly use hers if that makes you feel better.

[Alwayreckles93]

That would be very childish immature behavior plus it's gross no I am not using my sister loofa thats like saying used her toothbrush.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You make a good point

[Kaneki05]

Just a bit. I wouldn't care at all if I had a sister who used it.
It's not as if it's going to stay dirty when you pour soap onto it and rinse it out anyway.
Tbh I would share a lot with someone I am close with because it matters not to me, it's not as if it's going to give me some deadly disease. Like oh no she used my toothbrush shrugs.

[Alwayreckles93]

That is gross. Just nasty very unsanitary. No matterhow close I am with people I never used a very personal object. What if your sisterwash her coochy with your loofa that is nasty even if its washed still very nasty.

[Alwayreckles93]

Let me guess you also allowed your sister to use your toothbrush.

[Kaneki05]

Do you have reading issues? Because I already said I would. So that 2nd reply makes no sense unless you have read issues.

It's not nasty because like you just said it's washed. If that's nasty.. then what do you think about been with your partner naked at any point is that also gross? Though you know they are washed and clean?
If you know the other person is clean I don't see how it could be gross. But then again gross is subjective so think whatever you want all I know is scientifically it won't impact me in anyway so shrugs.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That is gross. I can’t really understand why she would do that.

But then again, is this your younger sister?

If it is then we both know there’s far less sanitary things she’s already been doing.

On the scale of things she’s done this might just hail in comparison

[Alwayreckles93]

No its my older sister 39 lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

Seriously wtf.

I would’ve never figured in my wildest imagination she would’ve been the one to do it

[Exterminatore]

No. I’d be upset too. Those are used to exfoliate dead skin. Who would want someone else’s dead skin all over and in what they use to clean their own bodies with. 🤮

[Exterminatore]

It’s almost like someone borrowing your underwater or socks. So gross.

[Alwayreckles93]

I agree that is just disgusting unsanitary.

[TonyMetal___86]

You're not overeacting at all, you're a wonderful lady and she's being disrespectful, especially when it comes to using very personal stuff such as this one...

[Alwayreckles93]

See you know common sense. I am sure whe you go visit a friend or relative outside of state or travel on vacation to bring along your toothbrush , loofa. My sister eve woudl grab ny toothbrush when she was in highschool andbwe had no choicebut to live together.

[TonyMetal___86]

Such things doesn't have anything to do with religious beliefs, it's hygienic and any person would react the same, even in the same family where a man and a woman are married, each one have his/her own loofah, toothbrush and other stuff...

Your sister using your personal stuff is ignorant and rude...

Even though you're treating her nice and welcoming her in your house

[DJB72]

I'd definitely be pissed off. Given what body parts people tend to wash with a loofa I'd never touch someone else's and I expect people staying with me to respect mine.

[DizzyDesii]

My sis did that before and i was livid

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh my goodness did your sister even apologized?

[DizzyDesii]

She didn't think anything was wrong with it. Like nah i dont play that

[Alwayreckles93]

What happen didntou guys went at it each other throat?

[DizzyDesii]

Nah its not serious enough to get physical. I just bought another and keep it in my room until i go in the bathroom

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope I hate that I'd give it to her. That would gross me out

[DaBiggestBird]

No she just needed a good wee talking to and now you can move on without any problems.

[OlderAndWiser]

I understand you being upset with her.

[RedInnocent68]

A loofa is a deeply personal thing. 😔

[Jmmmfi4]

GUESS YOU SHOULD BUY A NEW ONE

[Staximus]

Relax