I'm feeling really bad about this. I have a "friend from work" (aka we don't hang out outside of work) and I feel grossed about by her. She definitely wants to be better friends, but I don't.
Her car is a hoarders den, and she always wants to give me rides everywhere. I'm talking coffee cups and food bags several inches high on the floor, used Kleenexes, wrappers... Today she was sick and was coughing. The outside of her car is also completely covered in bird shit.
But she's SO sweet.
I feel bad, but I can't do the gross hoarder stuff. How do I politely make sure we don't become better friends?