If you won lotto. What would you say to someone who hasn't bothered to keep in contact, yet reaches out when they find out you won a lot of money?

[Anonymous]

Say you won like 10 million playing lotto. This person who is either a friend or a sibling who never bothered to really keep in contact, they suddenly reach out acting all sweet and kind.

Would you tell them to p off?

No I didn't won lotto. I keep having dreams about winning and seeing my sister making contact with me, because she was secretly hoping I would give her some money

[rachel776]

Steuben makes some of the most beautiful and expensive glass in the world, but they have this one little bowl that's $110

when i get invited to a wedding just for the gift, i get that and send it to them

that would work nicely for the Lotto situation, too

(the top picture is $110, the one below it is $17,000)

[Asker]

Pretty

[Staximus]

If you get invited to a wedding just so they can get a gift from you, show up. Go to the dollar store first and buy them some cheap shit like a $5 broom. Wrap it between 2 flat pieces of cardboard with a "to and from" tag on it so they know it was you that got the best of them after you eat dinner and leave hahaha

[SherriMarieValentine]

I would keep it cool. I would not bring up money. I would be cordial. I do NOT know what has been happening in their life. It is NOT my place to judge. The supposition in this "question" is that the person knows what happens in your life and now knows you have money and wants to be in your good graces because they are a money grubbing piece of shit. Share knowledge with them, show them how to make their situation better in the long haul by good decisions and working hard.

"Do things right, for the right reasons, with the right heart and attitude and the right things will happen in the right time.

- Charles R. Williamson Jr.

(Yes, my friend is wise, and a wise cracker.)

[Asker]

See I wouldn't help them at all. My family particularly my sister never once supported me during my pregnancy, even when it was discovered my pregnancy was high risk and my baby may die. Almost a year later and she has made no effort to contact me, not even to ask me how her niece is.

We never once had a falling out or ever argued, so I am seriously baffled as to why she cut me from her life. When she came to me for support with her regrets for leaving the father of her children, I was nothing but supportive and I was there for her.

[DextroShade]

I am sure this happens to every lottery winner who isn't anonymous. The only thing to do is tell them to fuck off and look for a handout elsewhere.

[Asker]

It Definitely would happen. Even if your anonymous. I'm sure someone who is aware you won would go and blab and word would get around

[DextroShade]

If I was a lottery winner I would immediately change my number, move, and tell no one who I didn't trust where.

[sawno]

Has a lot of factors, but they wouldn't get a single cent from me regardless.

[Asker]

Same. I'd be tempted to tell them they can suffer since they didn't bother to keep in contact.

[rosemilk]

i wouldn't say anything lol left on read, even if i didn't win the lotto. if someone hasn't bothered to keep contact with me, i will return the favor.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I wouldn’t say a thing, I know that’s a human nature, I’d still help them once and I’d go on with my life. I like helping people when I can.

I don’t expect humans to be fair, I am not upset when they are not. It’s a bit like accepting people as they are and still loving them.

I would be more surprised and caught off guard, if someone was very fair, kind, good person, wanting you unconditionally.

[Asker]

If I ever won lotto. I definitely would not be helping anyone who didn't bother to keep in contact and especially those who ghosted me when I needed their support the most. I'd be tempted to tell them they can suffer.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d still help them.

That would be a lesson for them and a chance for me to prove myself, that I am a better human than they are.

[MysticAngel5000]

I would ignore them. And I'd also wonder how they found out. In my state, you have the right to choose to remain anonymous and that's exactly what I'd do. I'd only tell a couple close people. Then it'd be pretty easy to narrow it down if someone did rat me out. I wouldn't have anything to do with the person who came out of the wood work. They would only be reaching out for a hand out and that would not fly with me. I have already cut out family members like this. They're the type who won't reach out and never come around UNTIL the holidays where they expect gifts. NOPE. Not giving you gifts when I know that's the only reason you come around. Not how I roll. I don't cater to bums and mooches.

[DancingQueen16]

I'd just ignore the person because its obvious the only reason they contacted me again is because they know I have a lot of money and want some of it

[OfDeath]

I would still talk to them but I wouldn’t give them any money

[Asker]

See for me. I personally wouldn't. The sister I saw in my dreams, is the same sister who has ghosted me in real life and never bothered to show any support when my pregnancy was high risk and I was told my baby may die. We never had any falling out and when we did talk in the past, I was always kind to her and showed my support to her when she expressed her regret for leaving the father of her children. It's been 5 years and she legit pushed me out her life and I seriously have no idea what happened especially when she talks to our other sisters

[OfDeath]

Yeah that’s kind of strange that she talks to your other sisters but not you.

[Twalli]

I don't really talk to friends or my sister, just because I don't feel the need to. I don't think I would find it deceitful for them to try to strengthen it after I have a windfall of cash.

[Asker]

For me. I have no idea what I done to my sister. We never had a falling out. She just never kept in contact with me and didn't bother to show any support when I had a high risk pregnancy and I was told my baby may die.

This is the same sister who had a falling out with our other sister. They went 2 years without talking and when she found out that sister had a baby. She wrote a letter to her wanting to be in her life, but with me. She has straight up ghosted me, and I'm truly baffled as to what I done wrong

[Twalli]

I wouldn't even know my sister was engaged if she hadn't texted a picture of it to my parents and me. It was sweet because he did it during the 5 year Anniversary of when they became a couple.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would ask them directly, "Why are you calling me now?"

[Dinklex3]

I’d just block them, lol.

[Asker]

Same but I feel like I would want to say something before blocking

[Dinklex3]

People have asked me for money before that I haven’t spoken to in yearrss. So I just don’t even bother anymore lol.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Dinklex3. Absolutely.

[BrightBubblyKat]

They’d never know I was rich.

[Asker]

That's the best way. Unfortunately for many people, it's not always easy to keep it a secret

[BrightBubblyKat]

You’d say your rich great aunt left you some money, if you had to mention it.

[teamvic]

Tell them to suck my ass

[Asker]

That's a good one

[exitseven]

I would tell them to meet me someplace for lunch. Then I would totally blow them off. I would do it multiple times until they figured it out

[JacobJordan]

just start laughing and keep laughing until it gets uncomfortable

[Fireguy17]

Sorry, the bank of me is closed.

[Asker]

I like this

[Fireguy17]

Feel free to "steal" it.
You can also insert your name instead of the word me.98

[Carly2005]

I be like who are you? I’d disappear.

[Asker]

That's a good one

[Guido]

I would totally ignore them and forget they existed.

[aceleon]

i would told them to suck my cock.

[Surely]

Who did you say you were again? My future business will need someone to clean the toilets.

[slatyb]

How would they know that?

[Asker]

It was a dream I had. So I'm not sure how they found out. I can only assume someone I do talk to, talks to them and told them.

[Staximus]

Tell them to fuck off into the sunset 🌅

[Slim57]

I'd block them