There was a guy I wanted to meet at the university today and we had a conversation like this? Is this man healthy?

[alicewood]

I'm going to college and I want to be friends with people But today I saw someone who looked really mature and I went to him.
and he was alone I talked to him about this alone that's how he talked to me My heart wasn't broken but I was very sad

I said this= "One second. What's your name?"

He said this=I do not want to share my personal information

I said this ="But, but! I just want to be friends! I'm new here, and I don't know anyone!"

he said that =People know you more than me, don't doubt it

I said this="But I don't know you! And that must mean you don't know me, either!" "Why can't we get to know each other?"

He said that =I don't want to get attached to anyone

I said this=Did you have a bad experience with people in the past? I mean, it's perfectly fine if you don't want to have friends, but you don't have to be rude about it."

He said that= It's better if we're not friends, trust me and I don't want you to know me Let me introduce myself briefly. I am someone who trusts people and gets heartbroken and reads a lot of books. I am someone who understands and speaks foreign languages very well. You are very beautiful, people will love you very much, trust me. They will even think about the feelings they have with you more just talk to people

I said this= Why are you acting like this? Why don't you give me a chance? I won't upset you, I won't hurt you

he said that = everyone says that I've been alone since middle school I had no one I don't know if my family is alive or not I don't want to get attached to anyone There is only one person I trust i trust god I trust you because I know your intention.

[SueShe]

He is probably healthy on a physical basis but very challenged on an emotional basis.

He did most probably have bad past experiences with other people and possibly even with his own family. He could even have been abused as a child or as an adolescent.

I personally would not insist with that person because he made it clear that he did not want to be too close to other students or other people. He seems to be more of a loner. You may even upset him even more and that is not really what you want to achieve. Best is to let him be and if he wants something from you, then he will make the first move.

[alicewood]

Girls say hello to him, he doesn't care about anyone it doesn't harm anyone

[alicewood]

He said he believed in God, doesn't that make him a bigot?

[SueShe]

He does not have to be a bigot. It all depends on how he was raised. He could just be deeply religious.

[rosemilk]

i feel like once someone says these things, it's best to walk away instead of trying to keep changing their mind. some people just want to be left alone and that's okay too

[Staximus]

Some people don't try to crawl out when they fall into the pit of despair, they just let themselves sink to the bottom. You can throw them a rope, but it's up to them to grab on. If they do, you better tie that rope to a tree so they don't pull you into the pit with them.

[alicewood]

At least he didn't harm me, he didn't rape me or he didn't beat me or punch me He gave me my freedom, he didn't make me his slave for false love.

[Staximus]

I don't think you are getting the message here

[exitseven]

This guy has been damaged. He does not trust anyone and has probably lived his whole life being alone. He will probably live out his life like that.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[spartan55]

Your lack of self awareness is Hall of Fame worthy..

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he has some issues. Take someone seriously when they say don’t date them. .

[slatyb]

Wow, he needs professional help.

[Iron_Man]

He needs help

[alicewood]

Why?

[Iron_Man]

Man shall not be alone like that

[alicewood]

People treated him badly. I wish you were with me and saw his face. He was looking very sad And he was angry, he got angry for no reason and he cried Sometimes he stuttered while speaking his hands were shaking These symptoms increased even more when he told his family.

[Iron_Man]

That’s why he needs help psychological. He needs to find somebody.

[alicewood]

From the outside, him face is very beautiful and physically he is very beautiful. But her heart is so shattered, I don't understand how they could upset such a beautiful person. doesn't deserve to be upset There are girls in our school who dress very sexy. But that man doesn't care about them when those girls pass by and say hello. looking at the ground and he never looks at them But why is he doing this? He said he didn't want to disturb anyone, I forgot to write this Why does a man have low sexual potency?

[Iron_Man]

He’s very depressed

[RavVid]

It is sad.