Do you think a friend is bad if she’s interrogating me on why I go to the gym a lot, accusing me of going to meet guys?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Because I’ve met guys through the gym (I’ve also met female friends) but you’d expect that since I’ve been going consistently for a long time I used to be really over weight so I’ve been on this journey about a year. she’s like accusing me of only going there to men….. like wtf. I clearly don’t. It just hurt me then she started picking apart my body saying she doesn’t see results when everyone else has seen progress I made

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PS: the friend is over weight by a lot herself. Gets out of breath when we are walking around the city

[OGname2]

She's not happy with herself and jealous of the progress you've made. She's probably not intending to be mean though. You should talk to her about her behaviour and how it makes you feel, hopefully she'll realise what a nightmare she's being :)

[rosemilk]

don't even entertain her nonsense. she is obviously upset about being overweight and is taking it out on you

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like she's probably just jealous on the idea that you have gotten more attractive but she's too lazy to go herself, she probably knew that comment would hurt so she said it.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I would understand if I asked for her opinion and she gave it but I didn’t. I guess I should realise that usually people giving unprovoked opinion, is just them projecting.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I doubt it's projecting if she's as big as you say, that girl don't go to the gym so even less to get guys that are most likely in shape, it just sounds like a comment said out of jealousy.

[mandyfire98]

I think she doesn't like that you are taling care of yourself and she doesn't like knowing you are in shape and she won't be. Misery loves company situation.