If You Were a Bride, What Would You Do in this Sick Situation?

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***The Bride Divorced The Doom Groom in January when He Purposely Shoved Her Face Down into The Cake during the Cutting. He Ruined Her Makeup And Slopped Up Her Expensive Dress. He Made a Fool Out of Himself, Trying to Make Her Look Like a Bozo. She had Warned Him Ahead of Time of a Divorce and He purposely Went Behind her back And Did It Anyways. Unbeknown to Her He Had Been looking at Videos on All Of That. I Could Never Trust Him Again in Whatever He MIGHT PULL in Regards To Anything. What Would You Do? xxoo

Lliam · Accepted Answer

That was a  super  F'd up thing to do, especially after they specifically talked about it and had warned him. The guy is not only too immature to be married, he doesn't respect her.  He ruined her wedding. That's unforgivable. Plus, how could she trust a guy like that again?  I think an immediate annulment is in order.  When my wife and I got married, we cut the cake and each held a piece up to each other's mouths to taste at the same time. I pranked her by pushing it toward her face and booping a small dollop of frosting on the tip of her nose. The photos of her laughing with a bit of frosting on the tip of her nose are really cute.  But then we romantically fed each other a bite of cake. Those photos are cute, too.  I lovingly dabbed the frosting off of her nose with a napkin afterwards. I would never have dreamed of mashing cake in her face, let alone shoving her head down into the beautiful cake. She and her friends had worked so hard to make her look beautiful. When we made the first toast, we also linked arms and sipped. Would it have been funny to toss the Champagne in her face as a prank? Oh, yeah. Hahaha. Talk about disrespect!  Would it have been funny to kick him in the balls and bash him in the head with a Champaign bottle? Yeah, happy wedding, fuck face.

Tim-loves-it · Accepted Answer

I woudnt trust him ever again.

rosemilk · Accepted Answer

uh yeah that would not fly with me at all. i'd be extremely upset and i think that's pretty unforgivable which in turn would ultimately turn into a break up

KittyKat90210 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't stay with him. And it's unfortunate that she had to warn him about divorce before the wedding! It was doomed to fail, and it's totally on him.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I'm sure a lot of people consider that a harmless joke. I personally think it's a waste of a good cake, but whatever. The problem I have is that apparently they talked about it beforehand, presumably she made her opinion known, and he just said F it I'ma do what I want.

JacobJordan · Answer

That is a tradition and very common. She should have known and been a grown up about it. However as she did warn him beforehand her anger is justified but divorcing the person you married over something like that? Well good news she saved the guy from having to find out in 20 years what shallow person she is

clovertheminotaur · Answer

Yeah I'm not sticking around with a man who would disrespect me like that. If he disrespects me this bad at the wedding, I would probably cry really hard and call the wedding off.

Shark_61695 · Answer

Yeah, I saw this... she warned him prior and he still did it. Definitely wouldn't be able to trust him ever again.

Kelley1 · Answer

I would tell the preacher "I withdraw my consent so don't file the license. Instead you may report that the bride canceled the wedding."

Likes2drive · Answer

He must not have had much respect for her to do that so it was doomed from the start, I guess if she divorced right after then hopefully she got it annulled

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Disrespected her in front of her family and friends. Divorce him or feel humiliated for the rest of her life.

dreamstar72 · Answer

I asked my wife this question and she had the nerve lol, to tell me she would have divorced me also. Since she warned me ahead of the time that the cake was a no no.

Staximus · Answer

I could understand pulling a joke like that at a casual birthday party, but humiliating your bride in front of the whole wedding party is not funny at all. Wrong place and time to act like an asshole.

exitseven · Answer

Damn, I think I would get one of my uncles to break the guys kneecaps.

OddBeMe · Answer

well, if she had to threaten divorce…it was stupid to go through with it anyway.

But obviously he’s a bitch who was never told “no”. I’m guessing his parents are blaming her. And her parents are stuck with the bill.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have seen such stunts pulled before. If I were to do something like that it would be at the rehearsal and not the actual wedding. The wedding is all about her and it is her day. Not a day to play….

Surely · Answer

Maybe an annulment would be the word of the day!

Mark987 · Answer

If she warned him and he still did it, he's an IDIOT. Everyone knows that a wedding day for a Woman and Man, is one of the most importand days of their lives. Stupid move

Wiredone · Answer

Putting a little whipped cream on her face is one thing. Pushing her face into the cake is downright rude and disrespectful. Good for her for getting rid of him

RandomUser1000 · Answer

He obviously doesn't respect her.

If they don't have kids together it should be easy enough to brake up and not look back.
more complicated if they have kids. But he would have earned himself a pretty big minus that he would have to do a lot good to compensate for.

loveslongnails · Answer

I read about this quite a while ago. Any guy who would do that deserves to be divorced or have the wedding annulled.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't believe in divorce, but I think she is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT in this situation, and I support her 100%!

Sharkstealth · Answer

I'm not a woman. I think this answer would have to encumber a women's perspective.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I can't imagine humiliating the woman you love in this way or any way.

shortster · Answer

He pushed her face into the whole cake during the reception?

Demonatrix · Answer

Divorce him asap. You are worth more than that. Respect yourself as he has no respect for you. Move on with your life you will find the happiness and love you deserve ❤

OtterMan68 · Answer

She did warn him

LazerBean · Answer

Immediate annulment

SotiCoto · Answer

I... woulD bE A littlE morE carefuL abouT whicH letterS I'M capitalisinG.

TheSpider · Answer

Sounds like trouble from the gitgo.

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

90/10 split on Property.

IloveWinters · Answer

I hope she divorced him

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