If you had a friend on here and found out they were friends with a member you didn’t like, would you feel betrayed if they didn’t end the friendship?

[Laciejordan]

This question was inspired by a friend of mine on here. 🤣

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't mind at all. I also don't really pay much attention to such things in the first place. Actually my wife posted these meme about me to my friends thinking it described me so well:

They all agreed that it describes me very well. I'm allergic to being controlled by others. However, I also operate by the Golden Rule here. I'm just as allergic to controlling other people as I am of being controlled.

I like to be treated as a maximally independent person and I like to treat others the same way. So it's not even important that I like my wife's friends (there is one I dislike but I don't mind since I don't have to deal with him much, she does) let alone the friends of the members on this site.

[TonyMetal___86]

I cannot control other people's choices but i expect them to defend me if they talk sh*t about me behind my back in their presence!

[Laciejordan]

Yeah, that’s an excellent point! I actually never thought of that.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for the mho

[Laciejordan]

You’re welcome! 😊

[bobalife]

It sucks, but I always tell people that everyone has different relationships with different people. I wouldn’t want mines to affect others, and it’s up to them decide for themselves. No judgment, but I would just hope they don’t do my friend wrong.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, it's fine. Maybe through the friend I could rekindle the "friendship" with that other person.

[Laciejordan]

That’s nice of you to look at it that way. 😊 Do you tend to be an optimist?

[Laciejordan]

I say that because you’re the only person that looked at it that way! That’s sweet.

[Billlewis]

No, I wouldn't, because her opinion is more important than my own, anyway.

[Laciejordan]

You got that right, sissy! 😊

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much, Goddess.

[Jennz6]

@laciejordan you knew that he’s a sissy too? lol

[Billlewis]

@Jennz6 Oh my goodness...

[Laciejordan]

Everyone on GAG knows he’s a sissy boy. 🤣

[Billlewis]

Oh my heavens... I can't believe how cruel you two are!

[rosemilk]

who my friends are friends with is none of my business

[Wallythewalrus2]

Anyone that would treat a “friend” like that, is a psychopath and deeply disturbed! I’ve cried enough from being betrayed by people on this site! Oh, yeah, kiss my ass @Billlewis !

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, thank you very much, Sir. It's a privilege.

[Laciejordan]

🤣🤣🤣 That’s me laughing at Bill. I’m gonna be nice to you, because I know it’s probably tough for you being away. 😢 I’ll give you hell tomorrow! 😀

[Beckybooboo]

😂😂😂 I would stop being friends with the one, that doesn’t want you to be friends with the other one! Does that make sense? I’m sure that particular friend has serious issues! And maybe a bit of a drinking problem!

[Laciejordan]

He’s a nice drunk! Lol I laughed all night.

[Beckybooboo]

I think he’s still celebrating and probably missing everyone. It has to be tough being away from home for him, in all seriousness.

[Laciejordan]

Yeah, I messaged with him very briefly today and he just didn’t seem to be himself.

[Beckybooboo]

I noticed it too.

[whirled_up_girl]

No, I don't really pay attention to who is friends with who in real life or online. I wouldn't like it if someone told me who I could be or not be friends with. In return I wouldn't make demands of someone else.

[Laciejordan]

Same with me. It’s their business.

[Jennz6]

@laciejordan DM me Lacie

[Jennz6]

@laciejordan we should be friends

[Still-alive]

Nope. My motto on this is that maybe they see something in them I don’t or can’t so its not a big deal to me.

plus i got a lotta people blocked anyways so if i felt that way id end up blocking everyone lol.

[Laciejordan]

Lol.., That’s definitely true!

[Still-alive]

That said if its a person who has done some real shitty things (harassment, did some crimes etc) i would really question their judgement on being friends with them especially if they also know that they did, but i still wouldn't pressure them or anything about it. i would just wonder wtf they're thinking lol.

But thats a bit of an exception than a rule though.

[tierrlamé]

No i dont mind. Its their friendship not mine. And tbh if that person is genuinely evil your friend will find out that too about that person sooner or later.

[Laciejordan]

It’s actually my friend that has a problem with me being friends with a girl he doesn’t like (at all), but your post still holds true, because I could find out she’s evil.

[tierrlamé]

Yeah well just be aware then:)

[Slingblade1126]

I wouldn’t care. There’s a lot of relatives I have that I’m close to, that happen to be close to relatives I hate! Make’s for exciting family reunions.

[RebelinSteel]

No not really. I don’t online or in real tell people who they can and cannot be friends with.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes i would but it would depend on what the member did wrong that caused me to dislike them.

[Laciejordan]

Someone brought up a good point, which might be the biggest reason for feeling betrayed. Would you worry that you would be “trash talked” by the person you didn’t like?

[DarkLegacy]

Yes i would, and it has happened before, sometimes i catch them out

[Laciejordan]

That’s terrible, I know you don’t know me, but I’m not like that. That could be why I feel he shouldn’t let it bother him but I definitely see that as a legitimate reason for being a little upset.

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks

[Laciejordan]

It’s funny, another opiner commented about relatives! Lol He gets along with some really well but they also are close with other relatives that he can’t stand! 🤣

[DarkLegacy]

Lol that is funny

[RMSTitanic]

Would love to know how everyone's in cahoots with a user named Bill and Wally the Walrus tbh

[RMSTitanic]

@Laciejordan and then little ol' me gets ignored 😭

[Laciejordan]

I actually remembered your name from another question. It was about New Year’s resolutions!

[RMSTitanic]

Aw well thanks

[Laciejordan]

I remember you asked about being friends on here but I forgot to follow you! Lol

[RMSTitanic]

I'll just go cry then

[Laciejordan]

🤣🤣 I’m following you now, just a little late.

[PessicaJeter]

Nah, I don't really consider it my place to try to control whom my friends choose to be friends with.

[nawtee_me]

Nope, everyone has a right to their own friends….

[NathanDavis]

no... I'm sure they were friends first with them, so it has nothing to do with me, lol

[NewgodOmega]

I dont have any friends in real life but I would surely cut off that person as soon as I found out

[gorydetails]

I don't get close with people on this site so I don't care what they do.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, that would be silly.

[Nice222]

No it would be okay with me.

[DJB72]

Nope. I'd just be wary what I shared

[OtterMan68]

no, I don't control my friends

[boobliker]

would it matter anyhow

[MrZameer]

No I won't mind at all.
It's their choice.

[Pterodon]

Not at all

[laly520]

nope

[LavLavLuv]

Idc tbh