YES my god that dude needs to grow up. looking at your age range and assuming he's around the same age as you, i am losing hope that he ever will. yikes. this is a red flag, not knowing why you're with someone but will have a baby with them.
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Well he's like why are you with me. I said you're a good man and you are the father of my baby. He said well same here
ah yeah, he didn't put any effort into the answer at all
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Context is everything. If you've been pushing out toxicity and indifference and now he's emotionally exhausted, for example, that would be a time to voice something like that. But maybe you've been as sweet as sugar and he's having an existential crisis. Perhaps he's not handling being a father.
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YES my god that dude needs to grow up. looking at your age range and assuming he's around the same age as you, i am losing hope that he ever will. yikes. this is a red flag, not knowing why you're with someone but will have a baby with them.
Well he's like why are you with me. I said you're a good man and you are the father of my baby. He said well same here
But it doesn't feel genuine. Shucks
ah yeah, he didn't put any effort into the answer at all
Context is everything.
If you've been pushing out toxicity and indifference and now he's emotionally exhausted, for example, that would be a time to voice something like that.
But maybe you've been as sweet as sugar and he's having an existential crisis. Perhaps he's not handling being a father.
She was probably batshit crazy during and after pregnancy.
@KrakenAttackin I was
But I'm more calm and helpful
Yep. That would do it. When you girls start bouncing off the ceiling, all of reality starts to unravel.
Asker. You need to work hard to make up that crazy time to him. "I'm sorry, and I was wrong" goes a long way.
Seems like the baby thing made everything so overwhelming and now he's questioning everything lol..