Why my mom hates seeing me working out and improving myself?

[Anonymous]

I really can't understand her!!! She always complain and yell when i tell her i wanna workout (at home) and be like nooo don't do it, she be like why are you caring about your body "will you be a ****" , "who's gonna see your tummy if you workout or not" "are you gonna sell your body if it improves?" Like wtf !!! This hurts me so much and ruin all my mood after trying to improve my self, eat healthy, workout, care about my health. She doesn't understand that I DO THAT FOR MYSELF, FOR MY HEALTH not for the shit on her mind. Plus she always compare me to others and made me an indignant person.

[rosemilk]

jealousy for sure... sometimes when women become mothers and their child is a girl, it's all over. because some of the time the mother will want to control her, be her, or is jealous of her. it can get twisted. not saying every mother is like this. but it sure seems like it in this situation.

her comments hold no value at all. she says them to bring you down and to keep you down. i mean, sure, you could tell her that hurts you. but reading this i doubt she'll actually understand that or care how you feel because she is using you as an extension of herself. if she feels bad about her health and you want to better your health, she will bring you down with her. it's so psychological.

[Anonymous]

There's no understanding crazy. Maybe it's time to move out. Get a roommate if you have to.

[jahaims]

She's a moron

[Asker]

I can't even stand living with her lol