Help! Serious friend is in danger what to do?

[doe9de]

So I've been really good friends with this girl for years and she met this guy, who she loves, but this guy is clearly taking advantage of her and she doesn't realize it.

I managed to get a conversation with this guy and took screenshot of his clear admittance of him trying to pull my friend away from me and trying to extort me for money, but she's just to blinded by love to see it.

If I show the screenshot to her parents they can put a stop to it, but the friend said if I do she'll never talk to me again. Should I show her parents and save her from this guy, and risk loosing our friendship, or should I let it go in hope she will notice and risk her being hurt? What do I do.

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I want to update the question to help people understand this is serious, as I said I have screenshot proof that this gut admitted to me his intentions to pull my friend away from me and has attempted to extort me for money in exchange for him to stop pushing her away. This friend was once very kind and never argued. Now it seems like all she does is yell and get upset over me just trying to be a friend to her.

[Emmytexrex]

Tell her because if you don't tell and she notice it and then she talks to you and you told her you knew all along then she will end her friendship with you

[Emmytexrex]

I think I didn't read to the end bro leave the girl be let her enjoy her relationship or do you have small feelings for her am a guy too u know you can tell me

[doe9de]

Spell you think i should tell her parents and save her? That's what I was thinking because earher way I'll probably loose anyway

[doe9de]

I did at one point have feelings for her but I don't think people are getting the point this guy is dangerous he's not got good intentions, and I'm thinking about reporting it to the police.

[Emmytexrex]

Ok do what you have to do to save your friend

[doe9de]

I will do my best.

[Anonymous]

You need to mind your business and respect her relationship. She even told you she won’t talk to you again if you expose her, so back off man.

[doe9de]

I don't think ypu understand this person is dangerous and is taking advantage of her and I have prof

[Opinion Owner]

They’re not dangerous you just feel threatened because he doesn’t want her around you. If you’re really her friend and not some jealous dude with a crush then back off. She’s an adult and this is her life, her choices not yours.

[Opinion Owner]

Mind you, both of these “dangerous” situations only involve you and don’t regard her well-being at all. If you were saying that he’s openly admitted to cheating on her or being an abuser then that is absolutely something to worry about and tell her parents about. But you’re freaking out about him because he doesn’t want her talking to you. That is a very normal feeling for boyfriend and girlfriends who’s partner has an opposite-sex close friend.

[doe9de]

While I appreciate your opinion. I don't think you understand the full situation, this man plan and simple attempted to extort me which is a crime.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re in complete denial. There is nothing more to understand: he’s threatening to extort YOU. He’s willing to do things so she won’t talk to YOU. Can you tell me a single thing that applies to her? Is he doing wrong by her? Is he cheating, or threatening her?

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me how exposing her to her family and destroying her relationship will benefit anyone other than you? She will never talk to you again is that what you want? This is you being selfish.

[Opinion Owner]

See you can’t. If you take your bad encounters with him out of the equation, he hasn’t done anything to her. This is about you, and while no you are not wrong to feel threatened and worried because yes he did threaten to extort you, that has nothing to do with her.

[doe9de]

Sorry for the delayed response, I totally forgot I posted this, and then I come to see more hateful posts from people who have no idea of the full situation.

If anyone who sees this is interested to know, my friendship is fine with this girl in fact betterthen ever, thanks to noone here. Is she still with this guy yes, but she's concidering breaking up with him and apologized to me, profusely, for not listening, and understands I was only trying to help her. She's no longer acting the way she was at the time and is incredibly kind to me like she originally was.

Please people it's important to be as nice as possible because from our point of view here on the internet we only have part of the picture, unfortunately some people try to fill that metaphorical picture with there own image.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh stop it, there was nothing else to “get “other than the fact that you considered destroying her relationship because you personally felt threatened. You are very fortunate she chose to keep someone as low down and trifling as you as a friend. Let’s just hope she doesn’t discover your secret crush, then you’ll really get the boot and her man will be the one to toss you out! Lol, enjoy biding your miserable time until then.

[Opinion Owner]

Also I’d appreciate if you delete my comment, I don’t want to hear anything else from you. Top three dots up there let’s you delete if you don’t know how.