Can people have toxic behavior but be a good person anyways?

[Solstraale]

Like trying to make someone self condouse or jealous?

[Finchie40]

Pretty much everyone has some sort of toxic trait about them because not everyone is going to like you or dislike you , so it just depends on how toxic their behavior is. Shit , had girls’ tell me I was toxic because I like to drink beer on occasion , to me she was toxic for saying that to begin with lol Me personally isn’t really a judgmental person , I pretty much treat everyone the same way I would like to be treated , if someone is nice to me , I will be nice to them back , if someone is being an asshole to me , I will be an asshole back. When I think someone is crazy or out of line , I just laugh and shake my head but I am still polite to them until they try to rain on my parade. So yes I believe there are a lot of good people that have some sort of toxic trait about them

[on_my_knees]

Morality and ethics are concepts Behavior is not.

[DishLady]

in my opinion, no. Even if they seem "ok" and pleasant towards others (or towards you from time to time), the toxic behavior will always resurface, so the "good person" thing is just an act... a smokescreen to mask their toxic or abusive tendencies.

[Solstraale]

So nothing can be learned unvillingly maybe as a kid or come out of insecureties? Where they still are good people with mostly good intentions towards you,

[DishLady]

You have a typo or something, I think. I'm not understanding your follow-up. DM me if you want.

[kylee2437]

None of us are perfect, I think personally it’s for you to decide what kind of toxicity you do want in your life. People not being perfect doesn’t mean not set boundaries

[IslaTheWitch]

it's possible, but rationalization doesn't solve the problem of toxic behaviors... so if it is repeatable and this person can't or doesn't want to change it, it doesn't matter if they are good or bed... you should keep your distance from them...

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Everyone has the capability for good and bad things. My grandmother is a racist evangelist who believes all gay people should and will burn in hell, but she’s also the woman that paid for my college education and the reason I have a degree at all. Just because someone can do good things does not necessarily make them a good person and vice versa. You need to use your own judgment to decide if the good outweighs the bad and if you’re willing to keep that bad from that person in your life.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find a lot of people do helpful things but disrespect you with words while helping you. I had people say I lied about my parents abusing me cause they paid for my vacations but they do not understand that it's possible for somebody to be a hypocrite meaning they do good things and bad things at the same time.

[NathanDavis]

yes, everyone has flaws...

I think even god decimated entire towns or, had babies killed or kids dead or something like that..

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes, but as long as their behavior doesn't change, they will always do way more damage than good.

[Jersey2]

People are flawed… all of us. You will need to weigh the good and the bad. People also change some through life, not a lot but some.

[Anonymous]

unless you're Superman, everyone else is fucking toxic

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure that happens a lot. I don't think people mean to be toxic they just are due to there upbringing or because there just broken

[MrGSpotHer]

I don't know I've never been around them types long enough to find out

[msc545]

Not really. The two things are diametrically opposed.

[woahhh152]

Nope, toxic people act good bit they aren't good as a person.

[woahhh152]

But**

[OtterMan68]

No one is perfect

[Luopio27]

Leave the toxic people out of your life!