If you are single do you need take care of your mom until marriage?

[Anonymous]

My siblings got married young so they are gone from parents. I’m 27 soon and stuck with mom as I never have a boyfriend yet so I’m not married. My siblings don’t take care of mom or send her money at all. And I feel it’s not fair because I feel like I’ll need take care of mom forever and I will never be able move out live with a guy and have my own life and family. 😞 my mom doesn’t drive , don’t want to pay rent , and how I’ll live with a guy or move to another state to start my life if mom will need me forver to drive her and pay her rent forveer? Then she’ll say excise that I’m not married to keep me & I’m miserable 😞😞😞😞

[slatyb]

That's up to you. There's no legal requirement, and your siblings shouldn't expect you to do it all by yourself.

[animesenpai]

You need to have this conversation with your siblings

[Asker]

My siblings don’t take care of her as they are all married live far. It’s not fair for me take care of her and I never able get married live with a man. I want get married already so I won’t need take care of her. It’s not fair. I also plan live to another state my partner lives in another state and I don’t like it here in Cali.

[Asker]

It’s not right they can do whatever they want and I won’t be stuck taking care of her she’s not my husband. I will move out soon with a boyfriend and hope soon I get married one day so I won’t need take care of her like my siblings.

[Asker]

Ideally my dream would be move far far away with my partner and just send money to my mom that’s it. that’s my wish

[Anonymous]

Buy the house next door and live your life but be nearby if she needs something.

[Asker]

I can’t be next door a guy im seeing lives in another state and I plan live with him once we are offical and either way I want rent apartment to far state and live in future there with my partner and baby I have 0 interest live here in this state.

[Asker]

Ideally my dream would be move far far away with my partner and just send money to my mom that’s it.

[Peridot25]

How old is your mom? Is she unable to take care of herself?

[Asker]

60. But I also have to live with a guy any moment now. I never had a first boyfriend. I want kids have my own family soon. Move to another state. I don’t deserve take care of my mom since I’m not married. That’s not fair cuz it’s not my choice to not be married yet. It’s god he’s not making me married yet.

It’s not fair all my siblings r married and don’t need take care of mom n dad. Now I have more pressure love with a boy and live my own happy life finally so I won’t need take care of mom
N dad forever live with them.

Ideally I would want live with a guy have babies and just send money to mom as way of taking care of her : and I live far to another state

[Asker]

She doesn’t drive and since I’m not married she controls me. I can’t rent my own place as she’ll say oh I’m not married. Or I’ll look like a whore living alone as only married girls move out , and I only want move out for sex. She’ll say stuff like that. So I feel trapped can’t start my own life

[DrPepper12]

Hell. Fucking. No.

You are independent of birth giver and thats the end of that!

[Danny_dan92]

This is a conversation you need to have with your mother

[Staximus]

Why is your mom not paying for her own shit

[Asker]

She’s divorced alone she complains of working and don’t want pay rent, I want have a first boyfriend soon and finally settle down live with a boyfriend and move out so I don’t want her to depend on me. Even when I live with a guy I plan send her money but I can’t do more