Am I justified in the loss of respect I have for my Uncle? Is he basically a cuck with no self respect? Why is he still with her?

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Its readily 100% obvious that he is married to a gold digger who uses him for financial gain.

Which on its own wouldn’t be that bad. Since that wouldn’t affect the rest of us.

HOWEVER the issue is that for whatever reason his wife has all this petty drama with my Mom and she views herself as some morally superior individual.

The crime of the century?

My Mom is a Trump supporter so she snubs her and refuses to engage with her.

And this also extends to me, my Dad, and my sister as well.

And I’M THE ONLY OTHER Trump supporter.

My Dad hates Trump 😂

But it’s just such BS

This “morally superior” individual has never actually had a job in her entire life.

Never contributed to society in any sort of productive way.

Meanwhile my Mom literally worked at an Emergency hospital for dogs for 12 years……

And she literally spends her entire life online shopping and buying pointless BS.

Not even with her own money, but her husband’s.

So there’s 3 reasons I no longer have respect for my Uncle.

1) He doesn’t have the self respect to divorce her.

2) He doesn’t have the courage to stand up to her and tell her to fck off with trying to divide the family.

3) He’s resorting to her same petty tactics of snubbing half the family and basically doing the same things as her.

4) He’s treating my Dad like an absolute scumbag for no reason. With the same sense of “moral superiority”

Like fr, he wasn’t always like this.

But for whatever the heck the reason he hasn’t divorced his wife (who is an obvious gold digger)

And he’s literally just a cuck with no self respect that sides with her for no reason and bends to her will.

I mean fr, I get that a man is suppossed to be loyal to his wife or whatever.

But why the hell be loyal to someone using you for financial gain?

F^ck them.

And someone that also happens to hate the entire rest of your family?

Such a f^cking coward.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

That's a classic read and so typical of Trump (that includes Tulsi G, Vivek, etc.. similar thinkers) vs democrats. Not all, there are gray areas and some democrats are very accomplished, but every trump supporter I know is a hard working person and often business owner. They are independent minded. Even hillbilly hicks... they were raised by solid parents usually and respect the value of work. The other side are "moochers", all too often that complain without solutions. This is why the only way you can reach some of these democrats is when they suffer the consequences of their decisions... personally! Until then, they cannot hear through their emotional blockade.

And that's what caught your uncle! Opposites attract.

"Love" is a strange thing (a subcsoncious emotional thing) and I'll tell ya, that woman has control over your uncle in ways you don't understand and is manipulating and driving wedges in the family... intentionally. It's her power and she is enjoying it. She will destroy it and blame everyone else.

Do a review of Mrs Megan Markle for a little insight into such creature which is an emotionally warped person... but your uncles woman sounds possibly, worse.

Pray the devil out of her and for your uncle. It's going to be a tough battle for your family, hard choices. You can lose all the respect you want, and you can cut them out of your life. You can try to talk some sense... but it ain't gonna be easy. Distance may be required.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sort of. The heart makes people do foolish things. I'm going through this with one of my nephews. He's dating a TERRIBLE woman. He brings her to our family functions. She's made the mistake of talking to me the way she talks to him a couple times and I've let her know I'm not my nephew and I won't tolerate it. So she largely stays away from me now.😆

I figure at some point my nephew will wake up. He just has a tendency to have to learn a lot of things the hard way.

I understand since your uncle is older he's supposed to have more wisdom than this. But some people are slower learners then others.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

He just love her I don't think it's just a cuck things to do. Many men love their wife even when she's bothering him, love and reasons usually don't make much sense