Childhood friends keeps adding you on different social platforms after having a falling out a decade before?

[LovishIslander]

I had a childhood friend who I haven't spoken to since high school over a decade ago. A few years ago I saw that she friend requested me on my rarely used Facebook and I accepted her request. I also have a private Instagram account and she's requested to follow me on that as well. I find it odd because me and this friend had a large falling out in high school with me choosing to end the friendship. Although I wish her well - I don't really care to be in touch or follow her on socials. I find it odd that she is adding me on several social platforms- am I right?

[theegloveguy]

Well, it sounds like you have reservations about keeping in touch with her. Sometimes people see their error years later and try to find ways to reconcile. She may have just been throwing the line out there with the requests to see if you’re open to at-least keeping up with each other’s lives on social media.

If you’re truly not interested in keeping up with her or her keeping up with you, I wouldn’t add her on any other socials. You barely use Facebook, so that’s good. Hopefully she doesn’t try to reach out. If she does, then you may need to just let her down gently while establish clear boundaries.

Hope that helps! 🙏

[CuriousHubby]

She probably is mad at you for having a happy life and wants to find some where that your not happy to make her feel better about her sad life she is leading.

Got a few of those just before COVID and more after.

Like nope not friends it's private

[art84]

Probably wants to see how your life is and jealous of you.