I have tried to many friends as an adult for the past 8 years. Never have I ever suceeded at making a long term friend. Its hard enough for me to make a friend. It feels almost impossible to find a long term friend (more than 2 years). All i have are a pile of acquaintances. the best way to describe my experience "trying to make friends" as an adult: Trying to make friends with a bunch of people who dont have any desire to make friends. This even applies to people who claim they are lonely.
Adults simply do not have the persistence or serious desire in meeting up with others. The only thing they are persistent in is romance and dating. this is the only thing they usually take seriously.
as for right now, I"ve permanently quit trying to make friends.
Its so hard to get someone to meet you for coffee. that it has become ridiculous and now im realized i've tried way too hard on people who simply do not care enough.
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