My boyfriend starts fights over small things how do I get him to stop?

[kareenakapur]

He said his sisters shoes were on the ground instead of the shoe rack and was like I hope ur not that messy. I didn't respond and switched the topic. It was like 1:30 am I was tired too. He got so upset said I was ignoring him and he has felt ignored throughout his life with his mom and his sister. I didn't mean to ignore him I was just thinking how I'm messy and how that will annoy him. I told him I was sorry was listening to him and was thinking in my own head instead of out loud and id be more cognizant of that.

[Summeroflove]

Fighting over little things most of the time means there is deeper resentment, unfortunately many people don’t communicate their feelings so they lash out in negative ways.

At the end of the day you need to consider if this is even worth it because if you’re good to him you don’t deserve to be treated like shit. Yes, it’s important to communicate in a non argumentative way that’s absolutely important whether it’s a big or small issue.

Resentment can be a sign of cheating, it's not a guarantee but this does happen because many people feel like someone’s showing them something they missed out on so they feel like you wasted their time. They also are getting off on the fact they’re betraying as well as hurting you. I know normal people don’t do that but people who enjoy hurting others do it’s a sick thrill for them.

If people knew what goes on inside the minds of people between narcissists and psychopaths most people would be VERY scared.

[Nik1hil]

See you have a weapons that you can use and shut him up.. You will get him to stop.

Every Time he starts fight over small thing, Flash him your titties for 4 Second. His Brain will Malfunction, make sure you pick the correct Angel for light to fall on your boobs and he should get a clear line of sight..

Not more than 5 seconds That's horny zone.. and not less than 3 seconds.. It takes 3 seconds for brain to malfunction.

That means you need to start wearing zip down clothes. 2 zips and boobies should be out only 4 seconds. Flash them and it's Game over for him..

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If he has a frequent problem of starting fights for seemingly no reason, he could have some narcissistic tendencies. They often like to start fights just to ease boredom and play the victim.

[KostasKouvalis]

Maybe he doesn't love you that much. I don't know about other men, but me personally, I'm more tolerant of girls that I love. He sounds like he has OCD. I understand being annoyed with his sister, but it's pretty stupid to just speculate that YOU would do the same. He seems to have some trust issues and insecurities. I mean, if that's how he is there is nothing you can really do, except maybe threaten to leave him.

[slatyb]

Simple. You date someone else. Or you can continue living with this constant drama for the rest of your life. Been there, done that.

[ProbablyClueless]

You're dating an extremely emotionally immature and unregulated person. This is what people like that do.

[LiamJHayden]

Drama kings are as bad as drama queens, often worse. You can do better.

[DrPepper12]

Sounds petty and using you for deflection.

[Anonymous]

He sounds immature. How do you handle it?

[Woyboy]

Does this happen all the time

[kareenakapur]

yes :(

[Woyboy]

You try makeup sex

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just talk to him and tell him how you feel

[Dongie]

Rub his nose in it.

[Maybeyoutoo]

Are you from India?

[Anonymous]

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