Why does this guy feel like I have to owe him everything like do him little favors?

[Anonymous]

For instance, one day he was like hey Lily, can you get me some Zaxby’s? I forgot my wallet at home that’s one another thing is he He thinks I owe him stuff like I’ll giveaway my things for him. I’m so confused why

[Summeroflove]

Because you do it for him, at the end of the day if you’re doing it that’s why he keeps asking you. If you ask him for stuff and he says no then he’s using you.

You just need to tell him no, sorry I can’t, and the list goes on. You don’t have to give a long exclamation as to why you can’t just be respectful unless he keeps persisting. You don’t have to do anything for him but as long as you do he will keep asking.

[Asker]

But why like why specifically me and I don’t always do things for him

[Summeroflove]

Asker I don’t know probably because you’ll do it sometimes at least

[rosemilk]

well do you usually say yes? maybe could be why. you say yes once and the guy think it's okay

[Asker]

I’ve said yes just a few times and lately it’s been a no now so?

[Anonymous]

Stop letting him use you like this.

[Summeroflove]

Truth at the end of the day, if she’s doing it for him that’s why he keeps asking. Especially if he doesn’t do any favors for her

[Asker]

I just wanted to confirm I don’t know if it matters or not this guy I’m talking about is a married man

[Summeroflove]

It matters and hopefully nothing else is going on

[Asker]

@Summeroflove why you say it matters is there a meaning behind it?

[Jackson2005]

Maybe he’s just lazy 🤔

[Asker]

I don't know what’s his problem