He should respect your decision to wait. I respect your decision and agree with you. If he doesn't obey and respect your decisions then you shouldn't be with him. If he will leave you because you want to continue/finish your education first then he is not somebody you need. His mom was right. You are the one going to be carrying/having the baby so you think about what YOU want not anyone else. Maybe finish school, get married, then have the baby so you can have some stability for EVERYONE. Finish college first. TRUST ME. College is hard and challenging with time enough and you are young so you have a long time to get pregnant. Plus, since you are so young, you and your feelings might change in time and as you mature. I'm talking about your feelings about him, life, babies, etc. If I had a baby, went to college, I would blow my brains out. So take it slow. If he loves you and it's meant to be he will wait forever and since you truly think he is the one then you can have all the time in the world to get pregnant. Go to college. It will help in the long run A LOT. Especially if you want kids you are giong to need a college education, especially these days. But PLEASE think of the consequences before you jump into something.! For the babies sake.
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He has to listen to your feelings and your decision. Its up to you to decide whether you want a child or not. Alternatively you two could get married when you turn 18 and you can have a child then.
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