I want to at least inform him officially that I want one soon... We have been together for years and aren't that young anymore... especially him! So I really want to ask him, can someone suggest to me the best way how? Just be very direct or hint or what.
I would be worried that you haven't gotten your marriage proposal yet. Are you really prepared to be a single mother? There is a higher chance it'll end up that way if you just have a baby with him now without any legal commitment. That's exactly what happened to my female cousin. She's only 20 and already a mother. The baby's father (her now ex boyfriend) is only doing the bare minimum for his son. That's not a good position for a woman. It greatly reduces her dating pool if she's a mother without ever getting commitment.
What does he thinks about marriage and kids?
So the opposite but I'm married and we are getting almost ready?
My hubby loves the idea of getting me pregnant... No baby yet but the idea!
Maybe during love making moan how you want him to get you pregnant see how it excites him but also before hand make sure he knows your on the pill.
My besty scared her boyfriend off just talking with him.
Baby fever is baby fever can't help it 🤒!
Loved it when my sister was trying but now I'm so scared it will end us being alone together!
You want to be obvious to finish up with but start with lighter questions like has he ever thought of being a father or have you thought about expanding the family.
Another way you could approach things is tell him your late and see how he reacts it's a more of a shock but you get to find out if he's ready to stand by you then you find out how true that was when you say it's ok I've started.
You should be direct because you don't have time to be messing around.
The time to be having this conversation was when you were getting to know each other and checking to see if you had compatible life goals, you didn't do that and now you may well be in the situation where you have to break up from a relationship you are otherwise happy with because you do not have compatible life goals.
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Hmm… You have been together for years and he hasn’t proposed to you and you have neither talked about children?
Make sure you’re not wasting your time.
I want children and that’s something my future partner should know right from the beginning, I also want a marriage with the future father of my children, that’s something he’s supposed to know right at the beginning as well.
If that’s not what he wishes, we can be friends, but we can’t become partners, because why do I need a man, if he CAN but is unwilling to give me a family?
Hints never work for men. Just come out. Be honest. I mean honestly this should have been discussed in the beginning stages of the relationship. I think if he were to give into having a child he won’t marry you if you’re hoping for that as well. I mean what more could a man need if you’re giving him everything w out committing to marriage? But at the same time marriage isn’t a be all end all if you’re ok living together not married.
boyfriend or husband, i recommend you worry about that marriage proposal first 😂
You don't have to make some big ceremony about it, just say that you think you want to have a baby in the next few years and want to hear his thoughts about it.
If you have been together for years and are not married and without a child, then he is the wrong person to have one with.
You're this old already and don't know how to talk to your partner, but you think you're ready for kids?
Good luck
If he's your boyfriend you should be comfortable to share everything with him. If you are not then you are not ready
Wanting kids is something you should bring up before dating.
Marriage protect children and the mother. Do as you please.
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