How do men treat female friends vs someone they fancy?

[KezHarris]

It’s difficult to tell whether a man just enjoys my company or wants more!

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1 y

What about differences between:
Just a friend
Someone you want to hook up with
Or: a woman you really fancy and want to date

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t think you can tell at work.


Personally I have a crush on a coworker at the moment but I find myself chatting her up making her laugh and dropping some flirting in there only I also do that to most of the other coworkers I have (women of course)


I doubt she and I will go anywhere on account of it being work and also my track record of tanking relationships


If I can give you advice: be bold.
Ask the guy how serious his advances are (maybe during an after work drink ideally)

[mstbooblover]

I don't treat really differently female friends and someone I fancy. Potentially I would happyly indulge with both, but the real difference is the choice whether or not doing, or trying anything more depending on as always on circumstances, their possible engagements and receptivity. I will never consciously do anything that would provoke havock with their other friends, intimate or not.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't treat them very different other than one I'm getting more physical with.

[Anonymous]

Honestly! Usually the same. Because more than likely his female friends are females he probably sleep w. Not all, but a lot of the women men befriend tend to be girls they’re interested in but she necessarily isn’t interested in him. A lot of men won’t say they befriend women they’d nail because most likely these women wouldn’t want to be his “friend.”

[DerekC321]

A guy will talk to a female friend like any friend, I think. Talk about interests, stuff you'd talk about at work, etc. But if a guy fancies a girl he'll tell you a lot more personal things and want a cuddle, and then maybe see where things go. And depending on the guy, he might be shy (or not)

[DerekC321]

A friend is a friend.

Someone I fancy, I might stare into her eyes longer than usual and definitely treat her to a romantic dinner and share personal things... that's trust and it's my way of letting someone know I like them a lot

[Anonymous]

The guy that fancies her will probably come up with reasons to be around her

I remember when I was a teenager I went to this fast food joint for entire week just so I could interact with a girl that was there. It's a good thing it turned out she had a boyfriend or I might have gotten really fat while I took my time summoning up my courage to ask her out.😆

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't do hook-ups, but I treat my female friends with caring and the woman I want to be with I usually ask her out for dates. I don't sleep around. This is how to see the difference?

[MisterWack]

I treat my female friends like how I treat my male friends, once we are interested in someone we act different towards that person.

[LiamJHayden]

I make it clear, but a lot don't. The fastest way to get an answer is to ask.

[Benedict234]

When I feel my heart flutter, there's such a difference

[shanshu]

Usually if a guy really fancies you he will want to hang out with you a lot more, prob text you abit like "hey how are you?" be near you but if he see you as just a friend he will just gang out, have a good natter and later go away if he is busy

[exitseven]

I was always nice to them and treated them differently from my guy friends but I never tried to have sex with them.

[NathanDavis]

one's my girlfriend... the other just friends

[ProbablyClueless]

It's not that difficult. Is the guy going out of his way to do you favors? If so; he fancies you.

[Anonymous]

You can easily understand their acts..
So many clear signs of lust..

[Yannae]

Like you're one of the boys!
and if I fancy you, like a gentleman.

[noohair]

Guys are careful when romance is on the line. They can be more reserved and goofy. Good Luck.

[Ariesman81]

If we're talking... it's cause we want more.

[Jennz6]

Always wants more