Is it sometimes worth taking the high road or defending oneself?

[Anonymous]

I remember being severely bullied throughout high school and into adulthood. I have always been a quiet person, and I still am. Not saying anything back only invites more drama from others. I'm in a predicament that I'm not sure how to handle. I don't want to feel like I'm insulting anyone. I feel like a punching bag, but I'm weary of being treated as one. I wanna tag her respectfully on Facebook with a post since that’s the only way to get my feelings across to her and her family. I can’t believe she left me nasty messages

[Anonymous]

After a while, saying that you’re taking the high road becomes an excuse to let more and more abuse slide. You don’t have to engage every single time, but honestly ONE time of really standing up for yourself is all you need.


Advocating for yourself even when it’s hard is so important, otherwise you will continually be used as a doormat or punching bag, especially if you smile or laugh (even though that’s usually a nervous response) when something happens they’ll just think you like it.

[Asker]

Thank you so much!!!

[SiegmundWalsung]

The idea of the "high road" is a bs concept that abusers and their enablers use to keep people from making waves.

Always defend yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you so much

[Adel50]

Don't put yourself in a position to be bullied.

[Asker]

Why am I an easy target for people

[Adel50]

Because you make yourself an easy target. Animals hunt the weak, not the strong.

[Asker]

This almost made me cry but it’s the truth

[Adel50]

Follow me.

[Adel50]

Let's talk.

[Plugs]

How can I put myself in a position so am not bullied

[Anonymous]

What did she do