I think my step brother took my unmentionables from the bathroom. Do I tell my mom?

[Betty_not_Veronica]

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By unmentionables I mean underwear

[saraupstairs]

1. It's funny that you had to explain what "unmentionables." are. But the audience here is what it is. 🤣

2. Emma is not in the Mensa society. Another room? Yeah, brilliant. Banks should hide their money in the broom closet. The robbers won't suspect that.

3. Don't say a word.

[AGAM1]

I would ask, I remember having a step-sister who was older than me by about 5 years. I was I think 9-10 she was like 15. We for some reason had to share a bed together when we were little. She used to make me play this game where I had to hide a tiny toy on my body and she would do the same. We would be in the dark laying flat. It was her way to get a feel and have me feel her. I thought it was innocent back then but now I realize what she was doing, crazy times. Make sure he’s not masterbating to them I would bring it out in the open talk to him first if he doesn’t stop then talk to a parent.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

That's terrible

[AGAM1]

@betty_not_veronica
Yeah, kinda made me much more promiscuous and trying to have sex early which resulted in ruining my life but things are much better now.

[Paige90]

Did you ever have sex with her?

[AGAM1]

@Paige90
No, unfortunately not. We had a few more sexual games we played together and we were naked together a few times. She showed me a few things and helped me learn about my penis. But we never had sex we only touched each other… if you consider that a form of sex but never penetration.

[Paige90]

No I don't consider it sex and I don't think it's a big deal

[slippery2000]

Definitely worth bringing up to him and taking him to the side so as not to embarrass him and give him the opportunity to own up to it. Pull him aside and say they're missing and give him a designated place and time you expect to have them returned by before you take matters into your own hands. Leave him in suspense and get him worried about something of his. Maybe a game console or prized item he can't imagine being without.

[Daniela1982]

Grab him by his nuts and ask him if he took them. Keep squeezing until he blurts out the truth. Tell him next time he does it you won't be letting go.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Not actually doing that

[Daniela1982]

Well, maybe Jughead can help you then. 🤔

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Love the Jughead reference

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I'm Katie by the way

[Paige90]

I hope not! It really isn't a big deal!

[Daniela1982]

@Paige90 Only if he wears them to school on his head so he can sniff them all day long.

[Snowbunnyalex]

You should confront him first before involving parents. Once you involve parents things will become very tense and awkward.

He obviously did it because he is attracted to you. Him doing this is apparently outside of your comfortable boundaries, so you need to set boundaries with him that you are comfortable with. Tell him that you only see him as a brother and you think it’s weird that he stole your panties.

see how he responds.

[Paige90]

My brother took mine ALL the time when we were teenagers but he always put them back after he was finished with them.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

What did he do with them?

[Paige90]

Not sure but he probably looked at the crotch and smelled them.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

And you were okay with that?

[Paige90]

I think most guys would do the same thing

[Levin]

I'm afraid to say he's having a wank with them.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Gross!

[Levin]

Sorry man.

Least he's having a good time.

[Paige90]

I think that's obvious

[EmmaMary]

To start with, why are you leaving your underwear in the bathroom?

[Betty_not_Veronica]

They were in the laundry hamper

[EmmaMary]

I think I might just be looking to having my own small laundry basket in my bedroom.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I'm going to do that

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I'm also going to tell my mom

[EmmaMary]

By the sound of it, the sooner the better I'd say.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Your not gonna want them back... That's all Im saying 🤣😂

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Gross!

[molonski2]

How old is your brother and what is he doing with your underwear?

[Betty_not_Veronica]

15 and no idea

[molonski2]

Ohh he is your actual brother? I think he is just going though a phase..
probably masturbating.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Step brother

[molonski2]

Well 100% he is masturbating all over your underwear .

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Nooooo!

[molonski2]

For Sure he is.. he's a kid.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

But they are my underwear

[molonski2]

Well , if I were you , I'd toss them out.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Haven't found them

[Plantlover44]

Just ask him outright. Say some of your underwear disappeared from the bathroom does he know anything about it otherwise you’ll ask your mother if she moved them.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I might do that

[Plantlover44]

You have nothing to lose. Give it a go. He might have taken them out of curiosity.

[ohsheeT]

How old is your step brother you should probably ask him first or talk to him first

[playboxidroid]

WOMEN SHOULD BE SEVERELY PUNISHED WHEN THEY COMMIT PATERNITY FRAUD!

[NathanDavis]

he should get his own Voldemorts...

[NathanDavis]

wait... maybe you meant something else

[NathanDavis]

bettlejuices...

[Betty_not_Veronica]

Voldemort and Beetlejuice?

[NathanDavis]

yeah... those you shall not name?

[NathanDavis]

do NOT mention them three times

[AviatorTom]

Why not talk with your step-brother first.

[exitseven]

First find out what he is doing with them.

[pinconon]

ask him first if he did take your stuff

[Abbycado]

I would

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I'm going to

[Abbycado]

He’ll just keep doing it otherwise. Glad I just have a sister.

[Betty_not_Veronica]

I wish I had just a sister

[Abbycado]

I was lucky in that regard. Just one older sister.

[EmmaMary]

@Abbycado

I have two older sisters. xxx

[Abbycado]

@EmmaMary you lucked out, twice. Nice having guidance from an older sister (s)

[EmmaMary]

@Abbycado

You're so absolutely right. xxx

[Anonymous]

You're 18. Go get out there and live..

[Wise4myage]

Call him out on it.

[Predetor]

What could he be doing taking them?

[Danny_dan92]

Why did he?

[Anonymous]

Yes.