How come men get away with taking the responsibility of a child just because they don’t give birth?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Because those kind of men (not all men) are losers who want to have sex but not deal with the consequences. Honeslty a lot of these women aren’t any better they are sleeping with one another for a reason. I feel horrible for the kids in these situations.

the same reason certain women have abortions

[Asker]

No the women is full accountable for it they have no other choice but to take care of the child. There is no ifs or buts to it if a woman decides to have sex with a man it is viewed as her fault.

[Summeroflove]

Well some people also blame the man as well. When it takes two to make a baby unless it’s rape.

So it’s both of their fault

[Asker]

It’s mainly the woman’s in most people’s eyes.

[Summeroflove]

Eh it really depends who you ask. But it’s BOTH….

[Asker]

Most of the time people blame or look down on the woman.

[Summeroflove]

And people do that to men too. People like deflecting blame on the opposite sex when it really took them botjn

[Asker]

I guess because I am a woman on why I feel that people always blame women.

[Summeroflove]

Well it depends people do but people also juar blame men. It depends but either way it’s a way to get out of their responsibilities

[RavVid]

Maybe because courts make us responsible for a child?

A lot us would be quite happy not taking responsibility if that is your preference.

[Asker]

I have to start reading my question before I even ask it because that’s not what I meant.

[RavVid]

:) Written English is a different language to spoken English :) I did choose to take a deadpan interpretation for the fun of it. So I was being mischievous.

[Nikki1989]

Many men like to take as little responsibility as possible with just about everything. I am not sure what drugs you are on today.

[Dongie]

What? "How come men get away with taking responsibility for a child just because they don't give birth? Or, How come men get to get away with not taking responsibility for a child just because they don't give birth?

[Anonymous]

What? Men get the responsibility because they don’t give birth?

[Asker]

Typo get away with not taking any responsibility

[Opinion Owner]

Responsibility in what way? There’s plenty of men who take responsibility in a lot of ways. A lot of times women say he’s a deadbeat dad because he won’t do what she wants him to do. For example my brother got so much bs from his kids (4) mother after he broke up w her. Found out she was sending nudes to some other dude so he said forget it we’re done. But she uses the kids against him, especially now that he has a new girl. She tries to control him w the kids. That’s the same thing an ex did to me. Eventually courts ruled in my brother’s favor, he now has the kids. Society assumes that women are always the best choice for the kids when I don’t think they really are. Children are more likely to end up w problems. Boys are more likely to go to prison, girls are more likely to be promiscuous. The kids usually have a lot of emotional issues I’m sure because the mom’s mental issues, breakdowns, etc, all spill onto the kids. I’m not denying there’s some men out there who are just garbage, but a lot of men take care of their kids. I know all three of my brothers do as do I. When is text my ex about my daughter she’d say well if you want to know these things come see her yourself or text her. I said I do. She was just into playing games. I always k ew when she had a man in her life cause she was rude to me, but when the man would dump her all of a sudden she was nice telling me to come over for one of her other kids’ birthdays. There’s different methods to holding men responsible, whether that’s tarnishing his checks or threatening w him going to prison. I could say the same about women. Why aren’t women responsible when it comes to having babies when they end up getting an abortion. She’s not very reprobate herself.

[Anonymous]

Because they're responsible men would be my guess.🤔

[Jmmmfi4]

What?

[Asker]

Women are full responsible for taking care of a child a man doesn’t have to because he can’t give birth so why would he be responsible for something that he can’t give birth and claim that isn’t his.

[Jmmmfi4]

Sucks to be you

[Asker]

I should have been born with a dark.