Is it true that most single mothers who are bitter are that way because they still want to be with the child's father?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

Attributing bitterness solely to a desire to be with the father is a harmful oversimplification that ignores the realities of single motherhood. Don't do that.

[slatyb]

No, it's because the father abandoned her and the children.

[oldpigg]

Yes, in fact most of them were pumped and dumped by a Chad.

[Asker]

What about the one in relationships?

[oldpigg]

They found a beta provider who would accept them, including their children, but in reality they still miss and prefer Chad.

[Asker]

If the woman has 1 child I don't think she is looking for a "beta provider". She found someone who likes her just like any other woman

[oldpigg]

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[Anonymous]

I think more often they are just bitter for the position they find themselves in, and in my experience they tend to blame everyone but themselves for it.

[Asker]

Why would they blame themselves for something they didn't put themselves in?

[Opinion Owner]

How do you figure she didn't put herself in that position (unless it was rape)?

[Asker]

I didn't think being in a relationship and having sex and then conceiving a baby is putting yourself in a bad situation

[Opinion Owner]

Were you on birth control?

[Anonymous]

It's because they still haven't owned where they made thier mistake.