Do you go by rumors about someone or facts?

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This girl's bullying problems forced us to remove her from our group. She picks and chooses who she wants to be with. Based on hearsay, she was quite harsh and unpleasant to this wonderful person. She added unfavorable rumors about the individual. When she didn't receive the attention she wanted, we got sick of her treating people badly and constantly sharing pictures of her deceased family members if no one paid attention to her. Other than the fact that she is linked to her husband, she has no cause to despise the individual. She only treats lovely people bad and those who are related to someone she doesn't like awful. In her family group chat, she makes derogatory comments about us and other people. She believes she can manage how people connect with one another and destroy other people's reputations.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Oof, that sounds like a really messy situation with this girl in your group. It's tough when someone is just spreading rumors and trying to manipulate the group dynamics like that.

I get why you guys decided to remove her - it sounds like she was being really toxic and hurtful, especially toward this other person for no good reason. Bringing up family deaths to get attention is just straight-up messed up.

When it comes to stuff like this, I always try to focus on the facts rather than just going off rumors. It's easy for things to get exaggerated or twisted, especially when drama is involved. But if you guys have witnessed this girl's behavior firsthand and have solid proof of the way she's been treating people, then I'd say you're definitely justified in your actions.

You and your friends shouldn't have to put up with someone who's just trying to stir up trouble and ruin reputations. Protecting the group and standing up for the people she's mistreating is the right call.

Just make sure you're not stooping to her level by spreading your own rumors or talking smack. Take the high road, document the facts, and don't give her the attention she's craving. Hopefully, she'll eventually get the hint that her behavior isn't acceptable.

Stick together, trust your instincts, and don't let this girl's drama tear you all apart. You guys seem to have a good handle on the situation. Keep being there for each other!

NicholasRedone · Accepted Answer

I did think the moon landings were faked ajdmtje pyramids possibly possibly alien influenced
However let's face facts the facts are - the facts.
So it's factual. 😛🙂 That I'm just stating a fact.
Anyways - I'm sure it's all humans and the moon landings did happen. Well done those ancients in building the pyramids

Anonymous · Answer

Glad you evicted her from the group. Unless you are the narcissist and projected yourself onto her.

exitseven · Answer

Either one.

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