If your parents break your rules would you decide cut out the privilege of seeing your child?

[Alwayreckles93]

I will say this not is a privilege not a right for Grandparents to see their grandchildren. During the time I was in Texas my mom ask she wanted to see my kids of course just for a while so my husband and I we are have rules family relatives must followed and we are a strong Christian family sadly some family members Catholic. My son told me that grandma allowed him to watch Harry Potter movies not only that but give him Oreos instead of a healthy snack and she teach him the song of the Cross saints and a lot of Catholic garbage and used profanity words Infront of my kids I was angry and furious guess what that demonic woman who shouldn't been my mom lost the privilege of seeing my kids. I give the woman a chance and she broke the rules. My husband and I we were very angry and unhappy a lot of family members from my mom side of the family turn against my husband and I. Honestly negative toxic people need to be cut of if it's unhealthy for the kids.

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10 mo

I know I will get a lot of hate. But if my mom was a good woman and a good citizens I wouldn't have to make this decision. But I was told by the police if my mom is very violent then it is ok for me to cut her off completely and I am not obligated for her to see my kids.

[midnightmoon05]

Depends how often your parents (the grandparents to your son) see him (your guys)… if it’s once a mom and less…it’s okay for grandparents for “spoil” him by watching a show or eating Oreo…

let your son know it’s special time with grandparents

if they are abusive, verbally/phyically … that’s different

[Alwayreckles93]

Well my mom is very abusive even you yourself as an adult if you hear my mom speak you would feel over load negative soficated if she actually was a good person my husband and I we wouldn't feel the need to make this decision. The pediatrician told us no sweets I even wrote that on the list and still my mom disrespected the doctors directions. The whole using profanity Infront of a child is not ok on my book. My husband and I we give my mom the chance and she blow it. It's her fault so she cut her self up for her selfish reason not us.

[midnightmoon05]

Why are you asking if you have made up your mind.
It’s your family.

[Alwayreckles93]

Because I am a U. S Citizen and I can. It's a free country 😉😉😉

[midnightmoon05]

I understand that attitude…my point is … since you already decided… which is a good thing… or are you trying to get validation from others due to your insecurities?

[Alwayreckles93]

It's not being insecure it's called making a point. By the way Oreos are bad for the human body. This why it's important to eat healthy. This why people are sick with diabetes. Second how would you feel if an Asian immigrant forced her buddish beliefs down your child's throat. I don't know you be might be a Christian or a satanic woman I don't care do whatever you want it's your life. TV is horrible for a child development.

[Alwayreckles93]

What the hell no I hate Hispanic they demonic!!!

[Alwayreckles93]

Ignorentaht last comment that was for someone else. I was just joking with that person. Please do not think I'm a racist. I am not a racist.

[midnightmoon05]

I have delay with ex mother in law… I get what you are saying.
I am asking how often do they see the grandparents. Daily? Weekly? Monthly?

[midnightmoon05]

Delt with ex mother inlaw*

[Tarifa]

You have a point, but I still think children should be able to see their grandparents. Only it should be on your terms. How old are your children?

You can send me a DM if you want to. I've had different experiences with my 4 grandparents. Their relation with them can have a profound impact on your kids.

[Tarifa]

Thanks for the MHO

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope I'd never do that my kids should know there grand parents

[Alwayreckles93]

But it's not a right of they break the rules or try to forced religion on your kids that you won't agree. I mean Harry Potter that stuff is demonic.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Don't do that let them be kids there is nothingnwrong with letting them see Harry Potter

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[alice55]

"I will say this not is a privilege not a right for Grandparents to see their grandchildren"

In my country there's a laws where grandparent can get the parent fined if the parent don't let them see their grandchildren so yes it's a right they have depending on which country you live in.

[Alwayreckles93]

Where do you live?

I live in American no it is not my obligation to allow that bitch see my kids. Nursing home were invented for a reason. Lol

[alice55]

France, i disliked going to my grandparent h house as a child cause I got scolded all the time and was bored but my father told me I'm forced to by the laws until I'm 18 (thus after they got better so I wasn't bothered to go anymore).

You do what you want but it's kind weird to not allow grandparent to see their grandchild

[Alwayreckles93]

Well I will tell you this if the grandparents are toxic negative abusive then it's not weird in some situations it is best to stay away.

[Alwayreckles93]

What a horrible law it's disgusting.

[alice55]

well I had a bad time as a child but growing up it got better so for me it was ok
people can change over time

[Anonymous]

Your kids your rules.
I don’t give my kids sweet or Oreo until they are 2 years and only eat real foods.

[Alwayreckles93]

Tank you exactly. I buy my kids organic and healthy foods. People have no idea the chemicals junk foods contain. I take health very serious especially when it comes to my kids well being.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, agreed.
My son doesn’t even knew the taste of French fries until he is 2, don’t even know real popsicles or ice cream. Mostly i just made it from frozen fruits without adding any sugar. I am picky eaters and don’t like vegetables because my parents just gave me what i like to eat. And I don’t want my kids become like me.

[Gwendoline]

Aren't you a jehovah witness? Your parents are Christian but you sadly are not.

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't want no Catholics fanatic. Now listen little girl. Not everyone in this planet has to be a catholic. If you wish to be a nun ok fine that's. On you but I may not listing to that statue nonsense.

[Gwendoline]

If you need blood I will happily donate to save your life.

[Alwayreckles93]

No thank you

[Gwendoline]

It's the Christian thing to do, you wouldn't understand

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't need blood from a stupid Hispanic no thank you

[Gwendoline]

I'm not hispanic. But don't be Christianphobic.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sorry that comment was not meant for you. No I am not Christian phobia and no Catholics are not Christians. You Catholic woman are teen moms. You will never see a Jehovah's witness becoming a teen mom.

[Gwendoline]

We are the first Christians, along with the eithiopian Christians, coptic Christians, eastern orthodox Christians, oriental Christians, armenian Christians and others.

[Alwayreckles93]

You Catholics are delusional!

[Gwendoline]

I will pray for you tonight, that you may find christ and accept him into your heart and repent of your sinful ways. 🙏 ✝️ 🕯

[eagle1951]

no way