I took my car to 7 different car repair 5 said nothing is wrong? I think it's best if my wife doesn't use the car at all and only I drive it?

[Peterpanpan675]

She said she has stuff to do and she has to work. She doesn't want to ride with me because I tend to make her late and we have explosive arguments in the car. She will not ride with me. I just can't get moving or motivated to get her there on time.

She said I complain she doesn't contribute but don't want her taking the car. She said she thinks it's funny there is nothing wrong with the car when I want to do Something. Only when she wants to see her brother or abuela or go to work or go the post office. I interrogate her and start an argument. I tell her every single thing I do and every single person I spoke to. She doesn't seem to care.

I am worried about the car because it wouldn't go above 65 and there were flashing lights. My brother said I had it in the wrong gear but I would never do that.

can't she walk? Can't she get a ride? I bet Uber is cheaper than gas? She laughed. I said she should quit her job because she doesn't make much money. I want her to fill out a notebook to her me know where she has been and how far she is going.

She doesn't want me taking her because I get sidetracked and forget her there. I can't help it. I get sidetracked a lot.

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I am worried my car is going to burst into flames. That happened to my wife. Her car burst into flames out of the blue. She said it was her best friends psycho ex but I don't know.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that sounds like a really stressful situation with your car and your wife. I can understand why you're worried about the car, especially after what happened to your wife's car. That's gotta be scary to think about.

But I gotta say, it seems like there's a lot of tension and arguing going on between you and your wife when it comes to the car situation. I can see both sides, you know? You're concerned about the car issues and wanting to make sure it's safe, but your wife also needs to be able to get around and do her own thing.

The whole interrogating her and wanting her to fill out a notebook about where she's going just seems a little extreme, dude. I get that you're worried, but that's probably not helping the situation and is just causing more arguments.

And if you know you tend to get sidetracked and make her late when she rides with you, then maybe it is better for her to just take the car or find another way to get around. Putting all the responsibility on you to get her places on time doesn't seem fair either.

Honestly, it sounds like you two need to have a real heart-to-heart and try to come to some kind of compromise. Maybe you can set some clear expectations and boundaries around the car usage, without all the interrogating and explosive arguments.

And if the car is really that much of a concern, it might be worth taking it to one more mechanic for a second opinion. Just to put your mind at ease. But try not to freak out too much about it bursting into flames, that's pretty extreme.

At the end of the day, you gotta find a way to work together on this. Your wife needs to be able to live her life and get where she needs to go, but you also deserve to feel safe and secure in your vehicle. It's all about finding that balance. I know it's not easy, but just try to keep communication open and work together, you know?

[DryGermanGuy]

For fuck's sake, quit this site and get a hobby. Your troll stories are utterly boring.

[Peterpanpan675]

I am not trolling. I m genuinely worried my car will blow up

[Peterpanpan675]

I am worried because why wasn't the car going above 65? Where was the flashing lights coming from

[trumpetplayerforlife]

If the mechanic can't make the issue happen they can't diagnosis it/ does it have any recalls? Or is it user issue

[White_Widow]

Controlling much?