I get defensive when people speak about my looks?

[Unrealiseddream]

If someone says something about my looks I get extremely defensive. If they say I like look tired or I have lost or gained weight I become infuriated. I now clap back and say something about that person's appearance too. Why am I so defensive in this area? What can I do to respond better.

[PaleDale]

Not wrong to be offended by comments like that. Don't those people have a clue?

[jahaims]

You're insecure af because you place value on the wrong things.

[AliceGregory]

Tell yourself these people expect everyone to look like the models people see on social media, an expectation you can't ever meet. But you can use it as motivation to workout at the gym to look your best and make your body all it can be :)

[wkhan_87]

Just be positive and confident

[Anonymous]

Insecure.

[Unrealiseddream]

This is not a crime 🤷🏿‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Vain.

[Unrealiseddream]

LOL!! 😂😂 Okay.

[Opinion Owner]

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[Unrealiseddream]

I'd rather be vain then hid behind an anon comment coward ☺️