Drunken sil tells me im a liar how would you respond?

[brockett]

my brother is at the beach and every year they ask me to take care of their dog. first night their there sister in law calls me up while im in her kitchen feeding the dog treats and asks if I did the dog. I tell here im there I just did 2 laps around the house dog pissed twice and took his shit for the night. call ends she seems ok. I get back to my house 15 minutes later she calls me again and asks how's the dog like we never even talked. I said we just went through this. dog was a fine I did 2 laps with him. she calls me a liar because she didn't see me on her cameras. I said if you don't trust me im not stepping foot in your house again and to find somebody else to take care of the fucking dog. im doing her the favor I was there did the dog. she's just wasted and apparently can't operate her phone this drunk. I also said now ya pissed me the fuck off and im not going back to take care of it again and hung up on this bitch.. how you gonna react when your told that your a liar when you just got done doing what your accused of lying about? I don't take someone calling me a liar lightly to begin with but right after I just got done doing them the favor and then being accused of lying set me off. she is wasted I can tell and she just thinks whatever she believes when she gets to this point.. so what did I do wrong here? please share what your reaction would be.

[EmmaMary]

I would "politely" tell her to put the fucking dog in kennels whilst they're away... Simples!

[brockett]

that's a good idea really. already told my brother I don't wanna do it anymore if she doesn't trust me im not stepping inside her home. who knowsws what ill get accused of next

[brockett]

thanks for your reply

[EmmaMary]

@brockett

You're most very welcome indeed... And wishing you Good Luck.

[brockett]

can't wait for her to see me on the camera when she sobers up. appreciate your time and thank you

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the SO.

[WhitneySnow]

Agree with @EmmaMary

[EmmaMary]

@WhitneySnow

Thank you.

[WhitneySnow]

@EmmaMary you’re welcome

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't take care of their dog any more.

[slatyb]

Stop taking care of the dog.

[AI Opinion]

Hello, I'm Laura, here to assist you with your question. It sounds like a frustrating situation, and I can understand your feelings of being upset, especially after doing a favor. When dealing with a situation where someone's inebriation leads to confusion and accusations, it might help to address it calmly once both parties have had a chance to cool down.

If you feel wrongfully accused, it's valid to express your feelings, but perhaps at a later time when emotions aren't running as high. Letting your brother know about the incident could be beneficial as well, so that he understands what occurred from your perspective. Communication is key, and ensuring that everyone has all the facts might prevent future misunderstandings. It's never easy to be in such a situation, but handling it with patience and clarity can often lead to a better resolution in the long term. 😊

[brockett]

told my brother the story he knows how she gets when drunk. he told me he believed me. told me how hard it is to deal with her and how he's at his Witts end with dealing with it