How do you deal with a liar?

[Anonymous]

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 I know some compulsive liars. They don’t even know anymore which is the truth and lies because their lies are truth to them. I just let them lie but I do not believe every word coming out of their mouths. Sometimes I feel bad but nah they’re only playing themselves.

[DizzyDesii]

Take note of things they say, timestamp it, and then the day they say the opposite, pullout that receipt and show them how much they contradict themselves. Its much easier if they text something and then later try to text something different because then you can show them the screenshot of how dumb they sound

[ProbablyClueless]

Evidence is the way to go, unfortunately!

[DizzyDesii]

@ProbablyClueless i’d make a great detective lol. Like a mix of Olivia Benson, Will Trent, Virgil Tibbs, Nancy Drew and Monk 😂

[TooHot2Care]

Warning : In the face of evidence, what usually happens is playing the victim, turning things on you to make you the bad guy / paranoid / narcissistic.

It is CRUCIAL to maintain frame.

To be stoic in sticking to the facts and also stick to your principles as motivation. By sticking to a principles approach, you don't alienate people who are onlookers.

And this is SUPER important, because there is a SICKENING amount of people breathing that make you out to be the bad guy for standing up to yourself.

The "It-Takes-Two-To"-Tards.

[DizzyDesii]

@TooHot2Care oh yea i dont got time for the gaslighting

[TooHot2Care]

Oh god, don't even get me STARTED on that word. Have you ever had someone try to gaslight you about their gaslighting?

"I'm not gaslighting, I'm simply explaining to you in-blah blah blah blah blah" Like explaining away their gaslighting and adjusting the language so it doesn't sound like gaslighting?

God, sometimes I wish I could just Thanos people out of existence.

[DizzyDesii]

@TooHot2Care Yes i have but oh lawd not thanos 💀

[TooHot2Care]

Dizzy, Thanos did NOTHING wrong.

[DizzyDesii]

@TooHot2Care i don’t agree with killing especially half of the world in an attempt to reduce population or whatever tf he was thinking. Now was i happy to see iron man and black widow go? Yes, yes i was. But still

[lightbulb27]

figure out if they are lying or delusional. If it's family, guide them to help, get them out of it, and establish boundaries to protect yourself.

If someone else, you tell the truth... and leave.

[megabamse]

I call them out on it every single time. But i ask why, what was the idea and plan. To understand why they had that need. If i learn to understand it, maybe there is a way to fix it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I wait for them to get caught and “removed.”

[richardcory]

If someone lies all the time, never put yourself in a position where you need to trust what they say.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I encourage honesty in my personal relationships, by being quite honest myself.

And by not judging the person I am talking to. I just listen, I try not to judge a person who trust me with his/her secrets.

[catiecatie]

Not going to lie but I will flat out call them out or I just have a look on my face. You would definitely know if someone is lying to you with me around.

[PizzaDaddyo]

What you’ll need:
A mattress, a pillow, and a blanket.


Take a stand! Use a chair if you have to!!

[BadApple69]

I enjoy liars. I listen to their lies and then ask the questions that are impossible to answer if what they said was a lie.

[asphaltrhymes]

I put up with it in everyday life like everyone else 👀👀😀

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Learn thier microexpressions so that you always know when they are lying.

[abc3643]

You elect him President.
That's what happened in 2016.

[BarryLiverstone]

And in 2020, 2008, 2000, 1992….

[abc3643]

@BarryLiverstone Ah, you are so young and gullible.

[BarryLiverstone]

All of these men were liars and served as president. Do you disagree?

[abc3643]

@BarryLiverstone I do believe Clinton was, yes. Obama and Biden, no.

[BarryLiverstone]

Obama lied more than 20 times: www.politifact.com/.../

[BarryLiverstone]

Same with Biden:

www.politifact.com/.../

[abc3643]

@BarryLiverstone There's a difference between being an outright deceptive liar versus being mistaken. You will come to understand this well over the next few decades. Good luck!

I am muting; I have to work.

[Kingofkings1992]

@abc3643 Obama and Biden are by a long shot the worst presidents we have had in history. That’s mind blowing that a 60 year old man can be that much of a child mentally.

[exitseven]

I do not believe anything they say. Sometimes I call them a lying sack of shit.

[FunkyMonkee]

Prove they're wrong or at least get them to prove they're right!

[LovingJo]

Fuck them off!! But I know that it's not always as simple as that!! 💯

[Sparkie460]

I don't deal with them. I distance myself from liars.

[OddBeMe]

if you’re having trouble dealing with liars you’re the most sheltered human in existence.

It’s called life. Just don’t marry one.

[mommymommymommy]

According to americans, you elect him president. CULT-45

[Quigly]

Walk away from them. Liars are toxic people, You don't want them in your life.

[Yannishka]

I call them out on the lie.

[Adam1978]

I stop trusting them.

[boggboss]

Depends on the context

[sheikalana]

I don't deal with those kind of people.

[worldscolide]

You cut them from your life.

[Anonymous]

You cut them out of your life

[Iron_Man]

That’s very disappointing isn’t it?

[Wise4myage]

Id do the same thing you would do.

[Alex8736]

Don't bother with them

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't I cut them off

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You don't

[Jazzy54]

I don’t. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[red_knight]

Call them out