My girlfriend is kinda forcing me to find a place with her and her kid?

[Upupupup]

My girlfriend of 2 years is kinda forcing me to get a rented place with her and her kid... she's getting kicked out of her place and has to move in with her mum but she's kinda blaming it all on me and saying I'm a man and I should be doing everything to support her and Her kid

She went on a nasty rant to me blaming me for everything her money problems and her life and her kid so I ended it she said I was a joke and for me to enjoy my precious apartment alone (only has 1 room)

Am i in the wrong?

[aaron13547]

You are not right but you are also not wrong... she is hurt because she feels let down. She thought she could trust you and found out she couldn't. You'd be hurt to if she told you no in her situation. But at the same time you did the right thing staying true to yourself if you weren't willing to take care of her and the kid your suppose to admit that. She feels like she should have been able to trust you because those 2 years together and she just finds out your doubting how much your willing to do for her now... hard times make people grow together or grow apart. You stayed true to yourselves if you didn't like her enough to want to take care of her like your family you suppose to be clear about that and you were. I think timing just sucks. Sometimes the right thing for you is the wrong thing for them and that's when relationship are suppose to end... so you did the right thing for yourself. See it like that and be happy you are you thats what makes it right in my opinion

[Upupupup]

she's blaming me and saying I should man up and look after her and HER kid

[Upupupup]

Not my fault she had a 1 night stand and doesn't know the dad..

[Miristheiss]

Force? No one can make you do anything. Why are you simping some woman who has some other man's child? Go date single, CHILDLESS women.

You are signing up for a world of trouble. She is finding her a wallet to pay for her and her kid.

[HollyK21]

I don’t agree with her ranting, because ultimately her financial issues and problems with her kid are mainly her concern. However, I do think that this is a good point in your timeline as a couple to move in together. Within two years, you now know if you see a long term future with this woman or not, and should be making the appropriate moves forward if you do want to progress with her. So when would you have moved in together if not any time soon?

[Nikki1989]

You are not obligated to take on the financial and emotional responsibility for your girlfriend and her child, especially under pressure and manipulative blame.

[Hardon-Collider]

Yes. Creating a new sphere of life together, a new home, can affect your destiny. So that it works in your favor.

[AngryCarl2]

To be honest it sounds like you dodged a bullet. I mean it's not even your kid and she expects you to support them both? Sounds like bs.

[Ariesman81]

She's got a deadline you don't know about. Up to you on if you want to help her out. But the gaslighting is a huge 🚩

[Anonymous]

You are not in the wrong.