Would you accept a friend if you are always getting into petty squabbles and arguments with them?

Basically everybody tells me my drama tolerance is too low and that I expect too much perfection in the people I choose to socialize with, but all the pastors I watch online say to ghost friends who argue with you and cause drama with you.

On the other hand, I have had times where I ignored flaws I saw in the friends I chose and they ended up betraying me in ways that were potentially dangerous.

One guy called 4 times a day from fake businesses trying to figure out where I lived after I rejected him in a hostile way online.

We had not been in the same building as each other for around 10 years and he did not have my address anymore, but he wanted revenge because I criticized his morals when I rejected him online 10 years later.

Would you accept a friend if you are always getting into petty squabbles and arguments with them?
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