Why are these things with kids being discussed and normalized?

[Anonymous]

I left my tv on YouTube and by the time I actually got back to my tv a video about teaching kids as they grow up? Which is weird because I don’t have any kids and have no interest in having kids, but it’s YouTube after all.

and I saw that these people on the video are telling new parents that they should teach there children about sex at the age of 4-5? And they should know about the uterus and penis by the time they are in 1st grade? Even stated that telling the kids that touching their genitals/masturbation and ages 8-9 is okay? Like what the actual fuck, then we wonder why there are overly sexual men and women.
parents are more worried about teaching there kids about sex/masturbation before they are 10 then teaching them wrong from right and how to grow up a good person. Like holy crap, which is why I won’t bring a child into this world. Too many people don’t know how to raise children (which everyone is a first time parent at one point, but as you get older you learn the world around you) and those people’s kids turn out to be weirdos and creeps. Like why exactly is a child doing anything sexual and why are you showing them how to do it?
I don't know this is actually very disturbing to me that people actually listen to these types of videos/people.

Updates

7 mo

Also I’d like to add that on TikTok there are people also stating that you should teach the child “privacy” at the age of 5 so that he/she can touch themselves along with showing them how to do it.
What the fuck has this society gone to? You can’t even get into a relationship and within the first month the person wants to have sex. You go online and it’s all about sex. Now we’re bringing it onto literal toddlers?

[genericname85]

I mean being taught about "biology and how the body works and how children are made" is appropriate in my opion. But sexuality and masturbation should only be talked about when a kid specifically asks about that. But then also just factual.

[Asker]

I definitely agree with you on this, which is why when I saw the videos the people were saying to introduce and show the child how to masturbate before they ask about it

[AngryCarl2]

When I was a kid I didn't need anyone to explain to me how to masturbate. I soon figured out I had to do it when no one else was around.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So it sounds like you’ve got some puritan values that are effecting your judgement here. I think the only reason you might have an issue with a younger start to sex ed might have to do with the fact that you view sex as immoral.

[Asker]

Yeah no. I don’t have “puritan” values. I just don’t think parents should be showing their child how to masturbate at the age of 5. No where did I say I view sex as “immoral”.
But it’s all based on people’s opinions, not sure why exactly parents want to take away the innocence of there children when they are toddlers or first graders but hey.. if you want to do that so be it. Also nothing is “effecting” my judgement, sorry.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you think sex is corrupting for children, it implies you see sex as immoral

[Asker]

I didn't say sex is immoral lol. But that’s your opinion and how you view other peoples opinions which is fine. I’m not taking everyone’s comments to the heart, so not much I can say based on that.
But all you can do is read what I say and my responses and assume what I think.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Okay

[Nikki1989]

People are trying to get them first before they have their brains fried from seeing porn online. You only have to read some posts on here to know how much damage that garbage it does to people.

[Asker]

Definitely understand that, but teaching a child that is below 8-9 years old how to masturbate is very disturbing. I mean these people go into full detail on how to place your hands on the kid and you’re supposed to “help” the child masturbate and “release”. It’s disgusting, really