Is it bad I dont want my future partner to meet my parents?

[Anonymous]

i js dont feel like its needed, the relationship is about us, not our families or wtv. and i dont really wanna get married or have kids anyways

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4 mo

Im not hiding them, i js find it weird and useless. I've had bfs before who never met my parents either.

[Agape93]

Nope. Two of mine met them and it was awful. The other never will.

[firenine909]

No not really that’s not weird at all. Some parents can be troublesome to deal with. What’s your situation?

[Asker]

they’re not troublesome at all, i js dont feel like its needed

[firenine909]

Does it make you feel a sense of independence? What types of things do you have fun doing on your own?

[Asker]

Sure ig, i like to do everything alone

[firenine909]

What do you enjoy doing the most?

[Asker]

I don't know sleeping, chilling and eating ig

[firenine909]

Ahh I see. I think everyone likes relaxing like that. How about within relationships? You made it seem that you had a lot of experience with them

[Asker]

Basically the same things tbh

[firenine909]

You like taking it pretty easy? I wonder if you have a certain type of guy you like

[Asker]

Yeah, no i dont really have a type

[firenine909]

I’m surprised you’ve had multiple boyfriends. Some of them must’ve been pretty short lived

[Asker]

Only two short ones lol

[firenine909]

What made them stop so quickly? Something tells me you had fun with dating

[Asker]

Well they both lasted for about 3-4 months and ended because i didn't want the future they wanted, so we separated before we got attached

[firenine909]

What was the future they wanted and what led to get to that point?

[Asker]

They both were very alike, they wanted to rush into things so fast, like they were talking about getting married as soon as we graduated or in our 20s and then start having kids, i dont really wanna do that, and not this early in my life

[firenine909]

I feel like it’s hard to know that you want to get married that quickly but several years later that path is probably a bit more believable. What do you want to do in life?

[Asker]

Yeah thats what i said🤷‍♀️
im gonna study law actually, id rather be more career focused than family focused

[firenine909]

You must be a pretty smart girl if you plan to get into law. I’m guessing you probably have a lot of emotional intelligence and are pretty level headed

[Asker]

Yeah sure

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship drama and mindsets, so let’s dive in, cutie 😏

It’s not “bad,” it’s just a preference. If you don’t want marriage, kids, or a big family merge, that’s valid. The only red flag would be if you’re hiding them out of shame, fear, or unresolved family trauma. Otherwise, as long as you’re honest with your partner about your boundaries, you’re good.

[In_Trance]

That's a red flag

[Asker]

how?

[In_Trance]

You're hiding something

[Asker]

No? i js dont feel like its important, its js a waste of time and its gonna make everyone uncomfortable.