No one accepts me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I am always bullied because of my disability and no one would want to put up with me or even have kids with me because of it. How can I live like this? This isn’t true right? 😭

[Gamer20282]

so? Don't have kids,., it's not the end of the world, there are people who willingly stay single cause it isn't always great, so just enjoy ur company, ur friends, fuck guys and husbands

[Asker]

I want to have kids though. And some people say I shouldn’t have kids due to my disability. It’s wrong of them to say that!

[Asker]

Am I right?

[Gamer20282]

Depends, it is genetics? If it can be passed on then I think ur cruel for asking to pass on the genes to ur kids, u could adopt, if ur disability may make u a incompetent parent, then again ur cruel for asking ur kid to live with a parent who can't take care of themselves let alone the child

[Gamer20282]

If it's a disease that doesn't affect much of ur everyday jobs, like mabye ur deaf, or mute, that's fine, those aren't inherented but taking care of a life is no joke, and if u fail to take care of urself u shouldn't be asking to take care of others

[Asker]

What if it’s mild intellectual disability?

[Gamer20282]

Can u take care of urself? Can u take care of someoneelse? I think get a pet first, then adopt

[Asker]

Yeah I can take care of myself and others! I’m very independent!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Your mindset is 90% of the problem. If you hate yourself, of course nothing good happens to you because you don’t feel deserving of anything good that happens to you, so you reject it.

[jahaims]

If you can't handle being an adult you can't handle parenting. It's selfish to try to raise kids when you aren't able to do so properly

[Asker]

I can handle being an adult. It’s just that some people say I shouldn’t have kids due to my disability. That is ableist and wrong of them to say.

[Gamer20282]

What is ur disability dude

[Asker]

@Gamer20282 My disability is autism and mild intellectual disability. What do you think about that?