If we’re close at work but never hang out outside, are we really besties?

[Anonymous]

But one thing is you tried hanging out once together it didn’t work out and than after you never hung out and hardly text each other except work would you consider that a bestie?

[petitedollbabee]

No, that’s just a coworker.

[Asker]

Really? we get along so well at work

[petitedollbabee]

Yes, that’s just a coworker. An actual would be someone you spend time with regularly outside of work.

[Asker]

Regularly or occasionally at least?

[petitedollbabee]

Regularly, like at minimum once per month.

[Asker]

Got ya

[Still-alive]

Well start hanging out with her outside of work

[Asker]

Yea okay

[slatyb]

Look for friends outside work.

[Asker]

Where I find if not going out much

[In_Trance]

It's a coworker

[Asker]

Yeaa but …. How else you make friends

[Jeff51]

Nope

[Asker]

Why that

[Jeff51]

Keep co workers separate. Specially not a best friend. I dont go to work trying to make friends

[Asker]

Me neither it just happened tbh

[Asker]

I mean we see each other 10 hrs almost every day

[Jeff51]

Don't make friends at work. Keep it as co workers. people come and so often

[Asker]

True but why we click so fast

[Jeff51]

Don't know. You have a lot of growing up to do. I was at 1 time wanting co workers as friends. Grew out of that as time went on.

[Asker]

Yes bc if u really do think about it people come and go so you don’t know is she will quit or if I will end up leaving or who knows what bc I have been used to people coming and going in my life and that had to do a lot with work