How can I talk to my daughter about choosing an abortion compassionately?

[TheLovelyWoman]

She is not ready to be a mom and I don’t want the child to suffer.

[Anonymous]

Well, talk about how tough of a decision it is to be a mom.

That being a mother is the best experience in the world and a great joy to welcome a new baby into the world especially when it is planned out.

When you have good financial standing, a supportive parental role to assist in parenting your child, a stable home environment, and support for a good education it uplifts the child to give them a great happy life however when invited in an unstable situation it will only cause greater instability.

Medical bills, food, clothing, and more aren’t cheap, especially to put and sustain a roof over your heads. Talk about what made you a parent and how you got to that point, from making sure debts were paid off to finding a loving partner who wanted the same, not rushing into things, and making the decision once the moment was right.

Don’t be aggressive to your child because their choice is final, but that doesn’t stop you from your role of mother from being over. Your baby will always need you and this is one of those times, give her guidance with compassion, comfort, love as you always did and she’ll make the right decision.

[Summeroflove]

Don’t. Step up and be a parent you coward. You’re a Christian woman who cheats on her husband and now supports abortjon. I feel sorry for your kids.

step up and be a parent and a grandma. Your daughter who made some choices has better sense then you do…. She’s trying to take some fucking responsibility. And you’re worried about your reputation of having a pregnant daughter. Not her….

You care about looking like you have morals but you don’t. I’m actually glad your daughter is transcending your poor life choices. She will probably make a better life for herself as a mother…. Then you could ever dream of having

[Anonymous]

I'll never forgive my mother for forcing me to murder my child

[Master_Debator]

Tell her she needs to be a strong indipendant whamen that don't need no man.

Tell her she needs to be a boss babe with a career and money, until she starts going baby crazy when it's too late to have a child.

Tell her how much she needs feminism, that you don't want to see her inslaved by the patriarchy.

😂 🤣

Tell her about all the dick she won't be able to pull once she has a kid, to say no to slut shaming.

Or... you could just let her make her own choices and tell her you support her and love her no matter what. You can tell her your fears... but the choice is hers to make.

[Nik1hil]

If she is Above 16 according to nature she is good enough to bear child and be a mom..

First get the child a Genetic Test If the child is unhealthy you get a Good reason to abort it..

If the child is healthy on Genetic Test..

It's your Job to provide for your daughter to have and help and raise this child!

[1WildBeatlejuice]

I’m picturing the Saturday morning commercial with the starving children and it saying for less than a cup of coffee and then out steps Lovely lady with a ak47 saying don’t want them to suffer as she mows everything down in site 😳🙈😂

[1WildBeatlejuice]

Tamera must be the dick that got her pregnant and doesn’t want to do it’s part in supporting the child and is why it is so on the murder bandwagon I hope it doesn’t have children

[Tamera952]

That’s a bit of a stretch… and not accurate.

[AviatorTom]

As her parent, you calmly voice your concerns, give her all the available information about abortion and on raising a child, and then support whatever decision she makes. It is, after all, her decision.

[Anonymous]

How in this age do people get knocked up. There are condoms, pills , lotions , and Medications. So the innocent child gets a death sentence because of someone else's mistake? How about waiting to have sex? Being responsible? if you can't afford a child , then keep them legs shut.

[Tamera952]

I agree with your sentiments about pregnancy these days—but get off your soapbox. It’s not helpful. “Keep them legs shut” is kind of crass.

[Opinion Owner]

@Tamera952 so , needs to be

[Master_Debator]

I agree, keep them legs shut. 😂

[slatyb]

it's her decision. how old is she? how does she feel about it? who would support the child? is the father involved?

[Jersey2]

It is your grandchild! Raise it, adopt it out, give it life.

[Tamera952]

So easy, right.

[Jersey2]

@Tamera952

So wonderful

[LC75LC71]

It's fucked when a mother has to ask a website about talking to her daughter.. Why wouldn't you welcome a granddaughter?

[Tamera952]

It’s no different than consulting a website for information, which is what everyone does. And when you phrase it oversimplified, like that, framing it simply a matter of “welcoming” his “granddaughter” (when I’m sure it’s far too early for sex determination) …but that’s not helpful. There could be a million reason why he feels his own daughter is not suited to be a mom.

[LC75LC71]

@Tamera952 It absolutely is different, more fucked that you're trying to defend such behavior! Granddaughter, grandson isn't the point either. Bet you didn't even reach out to the question asker..

[1WildBeatlejuice]

I agree with that going to ask a yahoo chat room how to kill a unborn baby so they don’t have to be responsible for raising it wonder how much thought this lovelywoman <—-wtf name is this for a baby killer) wonder how much thought she put into what kind of emotional problems she’s talking about putting on her daughter with making her an accessory to the baby killing

[Jordi2525]

Well, she has to choose whether to do it or not.

[Anonymous]

Why not have the child and place it for adoption? Are you eager to kill a baby?

[Tamera952]

It’s not a baby. Settle down. Nobody is eager to kill, gimme a break.

[1WildBeatlejuice]

It has a heartbeat I bet if she’s pregnant it’s a fucking baby what else is it going to be a banana?

[1WildBeatlejuice]

Because people are so stupid
Let's talk about abortion, sorry, tell me how this works
Bacteria is life on Mars, but a heartbeat isn't life on Earth? Weird

[1WildBeatlejuice]

Just take her out to the shed get out the coat hangers and the shop vac Tamera will give you a hand

[Tamera952]

@1WildBeatlejuice It’d be my pleasure

[Opinion Owner]

@Tamera952 It would be your pleasure to kill a baby?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause there is no way to do that with compassion. How old is your daughter and are you sure she's pregnant

[Jennz6]

Life, no abortion

[1WildBeatlejuice]

You are asking for a compassionate way to talk your daughter into committing murder? Something she might hate you for till the day she dies? 🧐 sounds like someone did not talk to her about the possibilities involved with sex at least she didn’t get a std that she would have to deal with until it killed her …. Did she learn to get started early in life as a parent from you? Were you 15 when you had her? The father needs to be involved with the expense of his child if he can’t do it his parents need to fill in on his part lots of parents see unplanned pregnancy not as a mistake as they mature but see them rather as blessings there’s a reason for this to happen in her life even if nobody sees or understands it

[Tamera952]

That’s easy for you to say.

[1WildBeatlejuice]

@Tamera952 how do you know what is easy for me to say or how much do you know about me anyway is your profile picture a sketch of you? Lol this guy that got this girl pregnant might actually be a good person and very possibly could have inadvertently saved this girls life somehow nobody would ever know because that’s how life is he might have stopped her from getting mixed up with the wrong people and became a std infected meth head or just got in the car with the wrong person and never got to go back home

[Jennz6]

@1WildBeatlejuice abortion is murder, I said “LIFE” wdym?

[1WildBeatlejuice]

@jennz6 sorry that reply was meant for the question asker not for you I guess I should’ve used a @ there is there a short cut to @ someone with out having to type it all out on here?

[Jennz6]

@1WildBeatlejuice okay

[_piotr]

ABORTION IS MURDER!!!

[Tamera952]

Oh please…

[1WildBeatlejuice]

What else do you call killing babies with your smiley face dancing dick?

[1WildBeatlejuice]

@_piotr I agree and is a shitty way to handle things looking like Tamera should have been aborted she smoking meth fighting spiders with bleach and cigarettes😂😂

[Tamera952]

@1WildBeatlejuice Again, I don’t call them ‘babies’ because they’re not. And what? …you don’t like my dancing dick smiley? LOL …This coming from Beatlejuice face? …I mean come on. Really?

[Mike_Hum]

fuck off with your trolling

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Its a very delicate situation I would say

[Anonymous]

Explain to her in a scientific way.

[robocop666]

tell her its easy

[Anonymous]

How old is she?

[Opinion Owner]

Other than the fact you're full of shit with this question if she's 18 or over she's a legal adult and can make her own medical decisions. If she's under 18 then as her parent you still have the legal right to make the medical decisions for her