My daughter wants the baby, but the baby will also be my responsibility. I want her to abort to avoid complication down the road.
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My daughter wants the baby, but the baby will also be my responsibility. I want her to abort to avoid complication down the road.
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You said she wants to keep it, so first consider this: If you coerce her to get an abortion, she will see it as you forced her to. That means for the rest of her life, she will associate you with forcing her to kill a life. Maybe some day she will be thankful for that, but there is also the possibility that she will forever hate you for that.
Next, how far in the pregnancy is she? If it still doesn't have a heartbeat, now is the best time for convincing someone "it's just a bundle of sells. Hurry up and abort before it becomes a real life". If it already has a heartbeat, you are in much riskier waters in terms of relationship with your daughter
Next, what is the situation with the father? This one is actually huge. If he's staying, that will create an even bigger wedge between you and your daughter if you keep pushing for abortion. If he's gone and out of the picture, the helps push towards abortion. Especially if she is still in school. It's one thing for her to give up on education and a career if the father stays and gets that done. It's another for her to do so when she has no one to take that route for her. And being a single parent that young makes her FAR less attractive to men.
That's probably enough for now
The child most likely will be born with life long health issues.
That's pretty vague. Is a mental disorder a life long health issue? Is a defect where a person's hand only has 90% functionality a life long health issue? Is it actually an issue that nearly guarantees the person dies before 45? You also didn't answer any question I asked.
Abort, abort, abort!!! You’ll be doing her a HUGE favor. She thinks she may wants it, but may lack the foresight to make the responsible choice. Her life course will be altered in ways she can hardly imagine, usually for the worse, and it is unfair to the child. If not for herself, then have her think about the child’s well-being. Having a child isn’t something you just ‘do’ in your spare time, cause the idea of it sounds fun, …. it requires planning, and more planning, and more importantly, money!! Tons of money!
If she wants to have the child and the child's father wants the same and they are in a good relationship, if the child is medically healthy and if doctor says it's okay for the girl to have the child, if she is old enough..
And if you can financially support the Child, Go ahead have a GrandKid!.. you will be lucky, You can go to Park with your GrandKid at 47-50 age and Get them to call you Mom and pretend like you are 30 😆✅ and Get to see your Grandkids at young age and will also Have a chance to see Great Grandkids at Age of 60-65, it could be your Magical experience, getting to walk with 3 Generations ahead of you!
Advise that human life is valuable. Everybody agrees murder is wrong but religious adds important to human life. So shouldn't kill a human fetus. Especially if the one pregnant wants it. If not want, then advise don't do the act that starts conception of fetus.
She doesn’t deserve a kid, she is still a kid too. Don’t make the baby life struggle just because she wants to.
I think so too, but she wants to keep the baby.
Again she is a kid, she can’t provide the kid. She has no right to decide yes or not.
Teen is not a kid it is old enough to get pregnant. @itsannalee To decide where to drive or how to drive cars. Even if you were not wrong, still a fetus is not a PLASTIC PLATE to toss.
Being legally able to drive a car does not automatically mean someone is emotionally, financially, or physically ready to raise a child. Pregnancy has lifelong consequences for the teen and the family, unlike driving a car. Many men talk about morality or ‘what should be done’ very easily, but they aren’t the ones who have to carry a baby for nine months, care for it 24/7, or sacrifice education, career opportunities, and personal freedom. Comparing pregnancy to driving a car completely ignores the real responsibilities and burdens involved 🥱
Your advice should be to guide her to her own decision and not push yours onto her. Help her in the most unbiased way you can as a human being and let her know you're there for her no matter what.
Keep. If your daughter wants to keep it and you pressure her to have an abortion you'll likely lose both of them
What-teen? 18 or 19 is very different from 13 or 14.
That's none of your business.
If she's mature enough to have sex and conceive then it's her decision.
That’s easy to say, but you bet your ass it’s very much her mom’s business as well! The teenager doesn’t get to have a baby in a vacuum. Her mother will undoubtedly be involved like it or not.
You should have been involved in her RIGHT UPBRINGING when she decided to have sex and decided to get pregnant.
She should keep it. You are a failure as a father and your laziness has caused this issue to begin with. You are the problem.
Huh? …please tell me you’re joking right?
Im as serious as cancer. If you were serious about raising kids we wouldn't even be having this convo.
Only switch mother with father. Gender isn't clear on this app. My guess is the mother's father isn't around... because of you.
You should never advise anyone to commit murder, let alone your own daughter.
@thelovelywoman Abort.
@thelovelywoman My answer was so abrupt and short, but for a teen to have a child is bound to really impact her life and maturing in a terrible way.
Why would you want your grandchild murdered?
Because the child most likely will have health issues.
You have no guarantee of that, and you think murdering him/her is a better option?
Message me
Talk about ‘framing’ ….. smh
Keep the Baby
That's not a Good Advice 😌.
Yes it is
You just have to support her. How old is she
I think you are right, I would support your idea.
Abort!