Any tips for dealing with my pregnant girlfriend?

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So my girlfriend is pregnant. As a result, my normally sweet and loving girlfriend, has turned into someone that gets mad at me for any little infraction and ignores all of the other shit I am doing right for her during the day.

It normally doesn't last long, but it's getting worse. She stays mad for longer, and has started saying things that are really pissing me off.

I understand hormones are crazy, and I love this woman who is carrying my child / intend to marry her. But I could use some advice on how to calm her down / get her to cut me some slack.

My latest infraction was not washing her black pants for work. She needed some pants cleaned, I thought said pants were in one of the loads of laundry I did. Turns out they weren't the "right black pants" She had thrown them down the laundry shoot into a basket that holds them after I had already checked it for laundry. I didn't know they were there. So I washed everything else, and figured those were the pants she meant.

I woke up the next morning, fed and let the dogs out, made her breakfast, and then she discovered the pants were not correct. Now "she can't rely on me to do things anymore" and is legit upset with me. She still wore the pants, they are just a little dirty, not a big deal in my opinion. She has an office job, not like they have food all over them.

I want to tell her to shut the fuck up and list out the fact that I pay all the bills, have been fixing up the house (that I also purchased, without her help), and a nursery for the baby, and cooking her breakfast every morning / doing basically everything around the house now that she is pregnant. But that would obviously be a terrible idea. How do I say that in a nice way, so she will understand?

Do any pregnant ladies out there have some good advice?

Any tips for dealing with my pregnant girlfriend?
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