My girlfriend is pregnant... can you help me?

[Anonymous]

So recently my girlfriend told me she was pregnant I don't really know what to think because I'm 17 and I'm not ready for a child and also because I don't know how to tell my parents that I got her pregnant. please help me

[SueShe]

You will have to take a deep breath and inform your parents about that fact. The same will of course have to be the case with your girlfriend.

There are a lot of things that you will have to get out of the way but first, you need to have a confirmation by a gynecologist that your girlfriend is indeed pregnant and that she is not just late with her menstruation.

The most difficult parts will be

1. To inform your parents and your girlfriend to inform her parents and to see their reactions.

2. To make a common decision with your girlfriend on what the next steps are going to be. Keep the child or giving up for adoption. I am not even talking about a third option because that is no option in my eyes.

3. If your girlfriend is still in school, what are her priorities and options going to be.

Given the fact that you are 17 and your girlfriend probably around the same age, your parents are probably in the age gap 38-45, which means that they should be open to that kind of problem.

It is important that you are upright and honest with everyone and that you give a very serious thought about what your next steps will be. The sooner you open up to your parents, the better for everyone. Good luck.

[Summeroflove]

What a wonderful answer

[Bethany22]

Ask her how much involvement financially she expects you to be in the child's life. Your parents are going to find out eventually anyway, so better tell them about it sooner rather than later. Best to tell your girlfriend the truth that you're not ready to be a parent

[Summeroflove]

You made the choice to have sex with her and being life into this world. Now, you’re gonna have to do the best you can to be a father and a boyfriend to your girlfriend.

You need your parents. You need people like that to help you as well as God. You need to repent and pray.

You’re gonna have to tell your parents. You need to remember your choices have consequences.

[Iron_Man]

Be prepared to be a father hopefully you have your parents for support and her parents you better be serious about life this is the ultimate wake up call for you

[PetiteBabe64]

Just give her over counter drugs maybe some alcohol 🥃 if she’s of Age NyQuil is one of the meds I recommend. Messing up the chemicals and hormones in the body can cause miscarriage from what I’ve read. Do your research on what meds cause a miscarriage and go from there.

[PetiteBabe64]

Some Teas can cause a miscarriage. MugRoot is one of them. It's cheap and you can buy it on Amazon.

[PetiteBabe64]

Reproductive system changes

Testosterone may reduce your ability to become pregnant but it does not completely eliminate the risk of pregnancy.

[PetiteBabe64]

Elevated maternal testosterone levels during human pregnancy are associated with growth restriction in utero. Our results support animal studies, which have indicated that maternal androgen levels influence intrauterine offspring environment and development.

[PetiteBabe64]

The more you can Mess up the fetus the higher the better your chances of A miscarriage so give her testosterone Pills.

[PetiteBabe64]

You can also buy those on amason.

[PetiteBabe64]

Amazon

[PetiteBabe64]

Abortion pill” is the common name for using two different medicines to end a pregnancy: mifepristone and misoprostol. First, you take a pill called mifepristone. Pregnancy needs a hormone called progesterone to grow normally. Mifepristone blocks your body's own progesterone, stopping the pregnancy from growing

[PetiteBabe64]

Could try that if you can get your hands on it.

[PetiteBabe64]

Ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin)

High doses of this OTC pain reliever can cause many serious problems, including:

miscarriage
delayed onset of labor
premature closing of the fetal ductus arteriosus, an important artery
jaundice
hemorrhaging for both mother and baby
necrotizing enterocolitis, or damage to the lining of the intestines
oligohydramnios, or low levels of amniotic fluid
fetal kernicterus, a type of brain damage
abnormal vitamin K levels
Most experts agree that ibuprofen is probably safe to use in small to moderate doses in early pregnancy.

It’s especially important to avoid ibuprofen during the third trimester of pregnancy, however. During this stage of pregnancy, ibuprofen is more likely to cause heart defects in a developing baby.

[PetiteBabe64]

Just don’t give over dose and she should be fine just have her start taking Ibuprofen daily and Night read instructions 2 or 2 in a half like 2 with a piece cut off should be safe for her to take.

[PetiteBabe64]

Good Luck 🍀

[PetiteBabe64]

If you can figure out what Over counter pill blocks a pregnancy from growing That should work the same as the abortion pill.
A pill over counter that blocks progesterone should work you may not be able to get the abortion pill so try figuring out what Pill blocks Progesterone.
Maybe testosterone pills do that just look it up and buy your pills off Amazon Or Walmart.

[Summeroflove]

You’re disgusting. I can’t even believe you would say that

[dustybiker]

Research teen fathers. There is a lot of info out there for you.

[leighbee]

Talk to your girlfriend. There are lots of options. Tell your parents

[leighbee]

Also get a doctor to confirm she's pregnant

[Anonymous]

Help you? Welcome to becoming an adult where your actions bring consequences. What help are you expecting?

[Anonymous]

Have her confirm it and prepare to be a father.

[ShininN]

You should make sure she's pregnant. and then sorry about telling your parents

[Twalli]

You can't soften the blow in any way.